Mama1985
Mama to 2!!!
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Hey!, well Im not sure if this belongs in here but i'll post it anyway, just let me know and i'll delete it.
Ok, I'll just start from the begining...
In august, I found out I had Punctate Inner Chiropothay (PIC, its blood vessels in the back of the eye that has burst and cause vision problems, its rare) and so they put me on steroids, in Sept, I found out I was pregnant, by then I was having lower back pain and so they realised it wasnt because of the steriods it was because of my pregnancy (and it didnt help that i was overweight)
Ok the work problem is, that I only get 12 weeks sick leave, and I only have 2 weeks left before the company stops paying me sick pay I have spoken to the midwifes and they said I can either soldier on, or quit work, but if I quit work, I wont get any benefits at all! and there is No Way we can live on my OH pay!!!!
On Fri 24th I have a scan, then Im seeing an Obstricion so I can ask for her advice, so if she agrees that I cant work then I'll probaly have to see the company doctor, and it'll be on his shoulders whether im fit for work or not, and if he thinks i am fit for work, i'll have to quit, but that mean I have no money!
What with trying to save for the wedding and save for the baby, i kinda need the money, and I dont feel comfortable working (my job requires me to be on my feet all day, and they cant guarentee that i;ll be sitting down all the time, and i might not get many shifts anyway, so my money will go down)
EURGHGHH
Im just, worried, I was in tears yesterday, and im trying not to stress about it cos it isnt good for me or the baby. any advice??
Ok, I'll just start from the begining...
In august, I found out I had Punctate Inner Chiropothay (PIC, its blood vessels in the back of the eye that has burst and cause vision problems, its rare) and so they put me on steroids, in Sept, I found out I was pregnant, by then I was having lower back pain and so they realised it wasnt because of the steriods it was because of my pregnancy (and it didnt help that i was overweight)
Ok the work problem is, that I only get 12 weeks sick leave, and I only have 2 weeks left before the company stops paying me sick pay I have spoken to the midwifes and they said I can either soldier on, or quit work, but if I quit work, I wont get any benefits at all! and there is No Way we can live on my OH pay!!!!
On Fri 24th I have a scan, then Im seeing an Obstricion so I can ask for her advice, so if she agrees that I cant work then I'll probaly have to see the company doctor, and it'll be on his shoulders whether im fit for work or not, and if he thinks i am fit for work, i'll have to quit, but that mean I have no money!
What with trying to save for the wedding and save for the baby, i kinda need the money, and I dont feel comfortable working (my job requires me to be on my feet all day, and they cant guarentee that i;ll be sitting down all the time, and i might not get many shifts anyway, so my money will go down)
EURGHGHH
Im just, worried, I was in tears yesterday, and im trying not to stress about it cos it isnt good for me or the baby. any advice??