Wow, I missed a whole bunch of other replies that you lovely ladies left while I was writing my last reply.
I woke up at about 5:30, not intentional! LO & OH are still sleeping. Wish I was! I had a really weird dream that I fell pregnant under mysterious circumstances (the 'father' was an old female friend that I fell out with years ago - how does THAT happen?? Lol. Then, after finding out I was pregnant I spent the rest if the dream running around the hospital trying to find my consultant and my antenatal vitamins! Very weird dream.) A few nights ago I dreamed I went back to work and completely fell apart. I kept trying to tell the supervisers that I needed to leave cuz I was freaking out and they wouldn't listen to me and wouldn't let me leave. I woke up very panicked. Honestly, I don't know that I'm really ready to return to work but I feel like I should try. I've agreed a return to work date with my supervisor - the 2nd March. I have an appointment with Occ Health on Tuesday to create a return-to-work plan. I wish it was sooner so I knew what to expect in regards to my hours, etc. I have a few appointments scheduled that I need to work around (psychiatrist, psychologist, Physiotherapy). I'm not looking forward to going back but I know I can't continue to sit at home in my hovel and expect to get better either. I'm completely lacking in motivation right now.
Thank you so much Pip for your offer. It really is a very long way to mine though (yes Poppy, you are right, I am in Surrey, the north edge near Kingston upon Thames). I wouldn't feel right asking anyone to come that distance when I don't even know if I will be ready to deal with the problem yet myself. I think Poppy's suggestion about taking on an hour every couple of days might work for me. I freak out when I try to think of doing more than that. I spent the whole day yesterday just looking around me thinking 'where can I start?' and just shying away from it altogether. OH said he'd help me today. We have LO underfoot though as it's still half-term so I don't expect much to actually happen.
In other (happier) news, OH and I DTD for the first time since before I went to Germany. We were both really knackered and we didn't think we even had the energy for it but we managed to find the spark. I am trying not to let myself get obsessed about conceiving again but even in my sleep it's happening. That's part of what woke me up at 5:30 - Dreaming about it!! I'm not even fertile right now! In answer to your Q Suze, I'm on CD13 which means I probably have another week before my body even tries to ovulate (my cycles have ranged from 33 to 44 days in the last year). Even when it does come time, I don't know if I will actually ovulate. It's not uncommon for me to have annovulatory cycles where my body tries (I get LH surge and ov pain) but either an egg doesn't come forth or it does and my progesterone level poops out and, either way, it does not succeed. The cycle I conceived Gerri I had been on a low-GI diet for 5 weeks and I ovulated on CD30. I don't really have much hope that I will conceive right now as I have not been looking after myself, particularly in regards to my diet, which obviously has a big impact on my fertility. I don't know how many of my cycles were annovulatory after the miscarriage but I know that at least one was (and 5 other cycles when we didn't conceive despite excellent timing). Sadly, it's more than just timing when dealing with PCOS. I need to sort myself out.