I've heard some people say that one glass every once in a while during pregnancy is safe, and some are appalled even by the thought of doing that. my OH definitely won't let me touch anything, sometimes I ask for a TASTE (like, just a lick) of his drink and he gives me a dirty look but drinks in front of me all the time. it's so hard!
I wish I'd known about alcohol free wine sooner, I would've brought it to parties with me because everyone asks why I'm not drinking. I've been using the antibiotics excuse lol, or I make a point of always being the driver.