I just came to the realization that I really don't like my SIL
I can't believe it took me this long to figure it out!
*edit - I don't not like my SIL, but I am just really really really annoyed with her right now. She put me in charge of the SS for our siblings and SOs by way of sending me a text saying "are you taking care of it? let me know who i'm shopping for" Like I have a choice now!! I set it up on Elfster cause I couldn't be bothered to do the draw on my own. Now she is telling all of us that we need to put our wishlists up on elfster cause my MIL is using it for her Christmas shopping. (Another third party message from her after SHE was complaining that no one talks to anyone directly the family. ugh!!) Not a big deal, but don't tell me what to do. I have already put everything I want on that list. I never really want for much around Christmas anyway. I think I'm most annoyed by the idea of having it all online. This means we aren't going to see eachother prior to Christmas at all?! I used to enjoy us all getting together to write out the list!
I think I am extra annoyed cause I told her that Nick and I were done shopping with the exception of the SS gifts cause we didn't know who we had at that point. Then on Friday she sends me a text asking what I was thinking about for gifts for Gramma R, MIL, and FIL. I am not telling her what I got them, and I am done shopping for them. DONE. that means no more thinking about it!!
sorry if that didn't make sense. I am really annoyed with her right now.