hilljm313
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My fiance and I are getting married in one month and he wants to WTT for another year. I want to try RIGHT NOW haha since we've been having this discussion already for 2 YEARS.
I've noticed that I have next to NO EWCM and am pretty sure that I have a few anovulatory cycles each year. So....I've decided to use this "waiting period" to improve and get to know my fertility status. We use the withdrawal method (with no accidents for at least 2 years), for the record...and I do not have any children so far.
So my questions are as follows:
1. Is trying preseed to improve my EWCM going too far?
2. Is intentionally scheduling BD around ovulation not fair?
3. Is taking the "on top" position during BD not fair?
4. Where do you draw the line?
Please do not use this post to sit in righteous judgment of my questions or dilemma. I am not using a turkey baster to inseminate myself, just wondering where to draw the line between improving the odds and respecting his trepidation.
I've noticed that I have next to NO EWCM and am pretty sure that I have a few anovulatory cycles each year. So....I've decided to use this "waiting period" to improve and get to know my fertility status. We use the withdrawal method (with no accidents for at least 2 years), for the record...and I do not have any children so far.
So my questions are as follows:
1. Is trying preseed to improve my EWCM going too far?
2. Is intentionally scheduling BD around ovulation not fair?
3. Is taking the "on top" position during BD not fair?
4. Where do you draw the line?
Please do not use this post to sit in righteous judgment of my questions or dilemma. I am not using a turkey baster to inseminate myself, just wondering where to draw the line between improving the odds and respecting his trepidation.