We only want 1 a girl but if we have a boy then we will have another or we may end up with twins as they are in my family and my OH's!
Our reasons I am the eldest of 4 I am 4 years older than 1 sister 6 years older than other sister and 8 years older than my brother! I always felt like I missed out on things because there were so many of us and when it was only my younger sister and brother left they got a lot more things, not saying that my mum & dad didn't do the best for us or me that they could I just think with 4 they struggled!
My OH is an only child and he has always thought that boys do not cope well as an only child! hence the 2 if it is a boy
We want to be able to give our child the best that we can and all our attention, plus they will have plenty of cousins ( i have 2 nephews and 3 neices and 1 one the way) so they will never be lonely and our 2 furbabies
this is our reasons but I can see why others want more