welcome lace! Of course you're more than welcome to join us for a chat!
Firstly, congrats on your little girl! She's gorgeous

as you were able to fall naturally, I would probably recommend having a go at ntnp, Giving your body a chance to do it alone is good, and ntnp without the stresses of full on ttc will be good! I would probably give it a good few months until trying meds, but that's more because I'm a believer of not just shoving drugs in your body as a first attempt. I'm sure whichever you choose to do will be right for you though
The fact that you are having a fairly regular cycle would suggest that you might be ovulating, although remember that in a "normal" woman, with a 28 day cycle (I wish!), in 12 cycles (a year) she would only ovulate on about 9 of these. But getting your cycles back by yourself is a massive achievement, so well done!
Losing weight would definitely help...it helps your body deal with the insulin resistance often associated with pcos better, and just makes you more healthy in general. It could also help to shorten your cycle further. I know of a few people who have managed to get pregnant after having lost some weight!
Hope you get your bfp soon! In the meantime, I hope you find it helpful being in here. Everyone is so lovely