Copied from my other thread, about my appointment yesterday: Feeling very defeated. Dr is strongly advising against vba2c. She said "I can't tell you what to do but if I'm the one taking care of you when you got into labor, I'm not going to be happy with you." She also said the nurses are goingg to be upset/on edge waiting for sh!t to hit the fan (yes she actually said that). I appreciate her honesty...but she also told me she had a vba2c a couple months ago that she advised against, and she was upset the patient refused the c section, but she did deliver just fine. In the end she suggested I meet with another dr in the group next week to get her opinion. She also checked my cervix and I'm 3-4cm dilated already. I have only ever achieved this after many hours of active labor!