Hey Beth, how's your mum doing? Have you posted on the first tri yet to find out about the spotting, there may be some other ladies on there that have experienced the same thing.
We took oh sperm sample to the lab today and the lady said that the results will be available by the end of the week. Not sure if they write to us or not though. I did a little research online today about adoption just as an option incase we get told eventually that our situation is hopeless. You can wait up to 10 years to adopt a baby! Now that we're having problems I wish that we'd ttc when we were in our 20's but the time was never right. I suppose we'll just have to wait and see how things pan out.