11 miscarriages and pregnant again :S

[Trying111]

Helen can you maybe change doctors? After 11 miscarriages i would think the doc would be more helpful

 

[Fresia]

Best wishes Helen. We are all rooting for you to get your rainbow baby this time. Lots and lots of postive vibes from me.

 

[helenb]

Helen can you maybe change doctors? After 11 miscarriages i would think the doc would be more helpful

i have already changed my dr twice, i don't think i dare do it again lol. the first dr i had a few years back during one of my pregnancies said that i had a pregnancy of unknown location and wanted to give me an injection to end the pregnancy as they couldn't find it. i was appalled as they didn't even offer a second scan at that point. as luck would have it, i moved hospital and they found my baby although i had lost it. following that i went to another hospital where i had a very traumatic experience when miscarrying. i had just been told my baby was gone after a scan and i had to go to the ward to see the dr. as they had no beds for me, i was put on a chair in the corridor for 8 and a half hours while people were coming and going constantly. my baby came away while i was waiting and i was left in this communal corridor. it made a bad situation a hundred times worse so both the nurses on the ward and myself had put in a massive complaint and i refused to go back. where i am now i have a lovely nurse who deals with me everytime i am there. she has miscarried too so knows the pain it causes. i feel like i have a bond with her now and she understands my situation so i won't move hospitals again. (sorry that was long!)

on a good note, after having only positive results on the sensitive tests, i have finally had a half decent positive result on a less sensitive test so i am presuming my hcg levels are rising although i don't know by how much. i am going to see my gp tomorrow so i am hoping he will be able to help. usually bu now, i have had some kind of notice that i am going to miscarry and as of yet i have had no cramps, bleeding or pain (i always have a pain in my left side when i am going to miscarry and my big toes hurt - strange i know) hopefully, i have my sticky one this time and if i can just keep hoping and stay lucky until my scan on 9th september i know evereything will be ok.

thank you so very much for being so understanding and positive girls, it really does make a difference when you have had so much heartbreak x

 

[9babiesgone]

wow someone else with big losses like me getting pregnant again. gives me major hope. congrats and happy and healthy sticky bean for you

 

[IgnitionPG]

11 is a huge number, but i would stay hopeful especially if you already had a son. The less you focus on it and worry about it the sooner it will come.

Good Luck! Stay Positive!

 

[seb89]

I am praying that this will be the one, you sure deserve it after 11 losses I am going through a miscarriage right now (it was my 1st pregnancy) I am so scared about the next one! I'm rooting for you!

 

[helenb]

thank you seb and i am so sorry to hear that you are going through a miscarriage. it is a hard and traumatic time that no one else really understands. i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and hope next time you get lucky x

 

[keepontrying]

Bouncing this....

Helen I have just read this thread, your story is so tough - how was your scan... i hope to god that you are well and the bean is still with you.
I have lost 5 and just found out about NK cells, i was also recommended a book 'is your body baby friendly' that arrived yesterday that is supposed to be brilliant.
xxxxxxxxx

 

[40yearoldmum]

Helen
How did the scan go?