19 dpo no af bfn.. going nuts!!

[PrincessKT11]

Hey guys,
I am 19dpo CD 33 (normally cd is around 28 days) and I'm not sure whether there is a possibility I'm pregnant or if I should be anticipating the .. I tested at 16 dpo and got a since then I feel like I'm getting the stomach flu or something.. My previous symptoms are nausea, extremely tired, my boobs are very sore (never this bad) and my nipples are always hard and hot.. The other day I noticed tiny little white bumps around the areola (sorry tmi), and I've been experiencing horrible heartburn, leg cramps, and pressure down there.. Is anyone else out there experiencing anything like this.. is this normal for early pregnancy?

 

[DobbyForever]

I have a lot of similar symptoms. I'm CD 40, anywhere from 22-27dpo. Not sure when I owed. But last BD was 28 days ago so =\. Tested every day since 9 dpo when I had major symptoms of early pregnancy. Went in for a blood test last Tuesday, bfn. Have an appt on Thursday just to make sure all is well and just a wonky cycle. My longest cycle ever was 32 days. Even on months where I stopped taking bcp or was really bad with my pills. My doc thinks it's me coming off of pills, my mom thinks I'm stressed... My. Well, I'm just hanging on to hope that a healthy little bean made a best and is just playing hcg hide and seek

 

[PrincessKT11]

I have a lot of similar symptoms. I'm CD 40, anywhere from 22-27dpo. Not sure when I owed. But last BD was 28 days ago so =\. Tested every day since 9 dpo when I had major symptoms of early pregnancy. Went in for a blood test last Tuesday, bfn. Have an appt on Thursday just to make sure all is well and just a wonky cycle. My longest cycle ever was 32 days. Even on months where I stopped taking bcp or was really bad with my pills. My doc thinks it's me coming off of pills, my mom thinks I'm stressed... My. Well, I'm just hanging on to hope that a healthy little bean made a best and is just playing hcg hide and seek

I'm keeping my FX'd for you!! Bcp is wicked stuff!! My sister in law didn't get a til she was 6 weeks pregnant with a blood test so you never know there's always hope. I'm waiting til the end of this week and if af doesn't show up then I'll call the docs... This is my longest cycle too which has been very strange.. Never have I had such intense feelings before.

 

[DobbyForever]

Thanks for the bit of hope! FXed for you as well! I'm trying not to get my hopes up. I keep reading about women who get late BFPs, but it's such a let down when I get a BFN. You have so much willpower! Keep me updated!

 

[Cowgirl07]

I am 19 dpo and around 3 days late. I have never had a cycle this long, I am on my 31st day. I have tested on saturday and might test tomorrow. I only use opks and didn't temp so I think I o'd on the cd 12. Fingers crossed for you!

 

[lala12308]

I've been having a lot of symptoms that I feel could mean pregnancy along with that feeling like I am. I feel like I have a stomach bug today too, very gassy, diarrhea and just sick to my stomach. But it could be something I ate. I'm 15-16 dpo today. AF was due this weekend sometime...still nothing. But I think sometimes, if we are focusing too much on things or thinking too hard about our AF it can get stalled so to speak..delayed by worry even. I only test at 6 and 9dpo w bfn obviously, way too early. Opk @12dpo, neg. So I won't test again, don't want the disappointment

I think you should give it some more time and see what happens. Good luck!

 

[lala12308]

I've been having a lot of symptoms that I feel could mean pregnancy along with that feeling like I am. I feel like I have a stomach bug today too, very gassy, diarrhea and just sick to my stomach. But it could be something I ate. I'm 15-16 dpo today. AF was due this weekend sometime...still nothing. But I think sometimes, if we are focusing too much on things or thinking too hard about our AF it can get stalled so to speak..delayed by worry even. I only test at 6 and 9dpo w bfn obviously, way too early. Opk @12dpo, neg. So I won't test again, don't want the disappointment

 

[PrincessKT11]

I've been having a lot of symptoms that I feel could mean pregnancy along with that feeling like I am. I feel like I have a stomach bug today too, very gassy, diarrhea and just sick to my stomach. But it could be something I ate. I'm 15-16 dpo today. AF was due this weekend sometime...still nothing. But I think sometimes, if we are focusing too much on things or thinking too hard about our AF it can get stalled so to speak..delayed by worry even. I only test at 6 and 9dpo w bfn obviously, way too early. Opk @12dpo, neg. So I won't test again, don't want the disappointment

I think you should give it some more time and see what happens. Good luck!

I totally know how you feel.. I've been trying not to over-analyze ever little symptom I have but I think when you want something so bad you tend to focus solely on that.. so hopefully we'll be seeing some .. FX'd!!

 

[DobbyForever]

Btw how did your sister's pregnancy turn out? I've read so many horror stories about late BFPs

 

[PrincessKT11]

Cowgirl07 and DobbyForver..Thanks!! I'll keep you updated

 

[PrincessKT11]

DobbyForever.. She is 4 months along now with a healthy baby girl

 

[DobbyForever]

Aww how exciting! Congrats to her and hoping your niece will have a cousin to grow up with

 

[PrincessKT11]

Aww how exciting! Congrats to her and hoping your niece will have a cousin to grow up with

Aww I'm hoping soo I've never had a close cousin so that would be amazing

 

[DobbyForever]

I hear you. My cousins are close by FB only, and I consider one dead to me for backstabbing me over and over so I decided if she is not going to treat me like family then I don't consider her family

 

[lala12308]

I hope we get an answer soon! Lol

 

[callypygous]

Hey ladies, I am in the same boat almost. CD 30, 3 days late, all BFNs. Even weirder, I lightly spotted yesterday, and then nothing. This morning I am producing lots of CM which makes me think AF will be here any minute but nothing. (My cycles are normally like clockwork, every 27 days always starting in the morning).

I just want to know, at what stage would you think about scheduling a doc's appointment for a blood test? I think it's still early and like Lala said, maybe it's just late due to the psychological stress of wanting to be pregnant!

I was thinking if nothing has happened by Friday I will go then as then I will be an entire week late which is unheard of (for me).

What are you ladies doing?

 

[Cowgirl07]

I would go with a week late. That's what the internet and a couple of people have told me.

 

[DobbyForever]

I have Kaiser. When I called the advice nurse she said that urine and blood tests have about the same accuracy and sensitivity, but neither will produce a reliable result until 7-10 after AF is due. She strongly encouraged me to wait because false negatives are common before that time frame. I took mine at 7 days late so I'm hoping I just took it too early.

Usually my gyn won't schedule a blood test unless you are two weeks late, but I was freaking out and she did it basically to calm me the eff down lol

 

[PrincessKT11]

I am probably gonna schedule one on Friday I'll be close to 12 days late if aunt flow doesn't show.. I've been having pressure/ pain under ribs which I've never had before but today I feel cramps in my uterus so she might be coming.

 

[marah_rn]

I am probably gonna schedule one on Friday I'll be close to 12 days late if aunt flow doesn't show.. I've been having pressure/ pain under ribs which I've never had before but today I feel cramps in my uterus so she might be coming.

i am exactly the same. some pain (pin prick) under the ribs... it's so annoying. Not much though . It comes and goes. I am 12 days late for AF and no sign of getting it either. I tested 4 times all BFN (recent was this morning) I am giving up hope. Maybe I am just so stressed. should I go to my gp?