1st Birthday question

[Laura--x]

So Maisies first birthday is in april and im hoping to throw her a party..

We originally had a holiday booked for her birthday week, ( monday-friday, her birthday on the wenesday ) but ive been thinking, and now me and her dad arnt together, it would be awful for himto not see her at all that week on her first birthday, so ive put the holiday off.

In exchange for that, i want to throw a party, hire out a room and get loads of different activities going. Obviously ill be inviting all of my family and fridays, and itll most likely be an all day thing with presents,preperations ect.

Obviously he will want to see her on her birthday.What should i do? Things are very odd with me and him and his family now, and it would feel really weird having them all at the party. But i know we have to think of Maisie on her day, so i would have to invite them wouldnt i?

I know im probably thinking far too much into it, its still 3 months away lol. I just want to make it fair because i know he deserves too see her as much as i do... as much as i dont want him or his family there!

 

[expecting09]

What do you mean things are odd between you and him and his family? Does he still see Maisie now? If your still on civil talking terms you could ask him about the day, and maybe hint that him and his family could do there own party on the weekend or something, just a thought x

 

[purpledahlia]

Id either, Have one big party, invite them all, or have one party with you and friends and family, then tell them they can do their own on another day... maybe tell her dad he could come to your party too so that then you can go to the one they organise and your both at both if you get me.. (if you want to go)

 

[Becky]

Personally I wouldnt throw a huge party just a few friends over for a little tea party will be more than enough! Just a home or a place she knows well! I let her dad come over either before or after to see her x