1st m/c January, 2nd m/c May, still trying for 3rd BFP

[bazzb]

she said its to check my ovaries to make sure they are functioning as they should be
does that make sense? maybe she think I have PCOS

 

[xoxo4angel]

Oh. That makes sense...take a look at your follies and see what they are doing. PCOS...I don't know much about it other than it can make ttc very difficult, but not impossible. My RE said over 80% of her patients have PCOS. I hope its just your hormones being off and readily fixable!

 

[bazzb]

I am hoping that as well... i did get pregnant once, so im hoping when i am emotionally ready my body cooperates

 

[xoxo4angel]

Aww I hope things aren't too tough on you...the Doc will get you back on track soon enough! I believe everything will fall in step for you and you'll get your rainbow!

PS The fact you fell pregnant once is a great sign! It WILL happen again...

 

[bazzb]

thank you Angel

I know i didnt have any cyst on my ovaries back in sept which is why I didnt think I have pcos but i guess anything i possible.. i need to try and be patient and wait.,.. which is hard for me

 

[xoxo4angel]

I think you've been insanely patient! I wonder what the criteria for diagnosing PCOS is, if there is such a thing. Now I'm curious.

 

[bazzb]

yah I have nooo idea

i read a few things

-obesiety
-acne
-lots of facial hair
-cysts on ovaries
-irrigular periods

im sure there is lots more though

 

[xoxo4angel]

Well, at this point we can just pray for the best. It just seems peculiar that this NEVER ending cycle happened AFTER your mc. I hope you just need a big ole shot of Provera to jump start your period. Come on Monday!

 

[bazzb]

thats what I am thinking... the only symtom of the above i have is irrigular periods... i am for sure no obese or anything

 

[xoxo4angel]

FXed your lab work is in by Monday and she can give you instant results!

 

[bazzb]

Oh sorry in canada the ultarsound is prefromed by a tech... and i have to go back in a week after my scan and see her... if there is a serious issue they call within a day or 2.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Ohhh. Well, I hope this next week goes by quickly for you!

 

[bazzb]

me too!! i just booked my follow uo for thge 20th of feb

 

[mannymoo]

Bazz glad to hear they are finally doing something about it. TBH I don't think you have PCOS. I have a friend here who's cycle never came back for 4 months after her MC. The doctor told her to just keep waiting. On the up side, she had her little girl on boxing day so as soon as it did return, she had a healthy pregnancy.

Girls - today is the milestone I've been waiting for - V-day! Never thought I would make it here and I couldn't be happier. Plus, all my stuff is being delivered today. So excited!

 

[bazzb]

Thanks manny!

Sorry what's v day??

 

[A1983]

Victory day-basically means baby has a great chance of survival if born from now-obviously better the longer he/she stays put!

 

[bazzb]

OHhhhh ok !
congrats manny!!!!!! yay

 

[mannymoo]

Thanks Bazz. I think it is for both the UK and the US. Its also the day that your baby is considered a real little person. If you go into labour from today onwards, the hospital has to do all they medically can to help your baby survive whereas before V-day, they can use their discretion as to weather they should give it a chance or not. On a more sombre note, after 24 weeks, you are entitled to your maternity leave and pay if you go into labour and things don't work out so well so its quite a big legal hurdle for many people too.

I'm hoping this little one is planning on staying in its little home for a while longer though!
Hope you are all well.
xx

 

[bazzb]

Ohh I think I heard of it before but maybe they call it something different here!!y

Please god ur little one stay in for a big longer yet

I am on my way home from work in a snow storm
We r getting 30 cm

 

[mannymoo]

Oooo I love snow. But probably not great when trying to get home from work. Get home safe...