1st m/c January, 2nd m/c May, still trying for 3rd BFP

[bazzb]

Yeah we are ntnp until af shoes her face
I'll Definatly order cheapies for next cycle also!

How long after ur mc did u get af?

 

[xoxo4angel]

AF showed 4 weeks and 5 days after D&C. I got a negative HPT 16 days post procedure.

Fx you don't need any more OPKs!

 

[bazzb]

Oh ok
28 days for me to get a negative

So maybe af in a week or 2
I don't think I od yet
But I am bad at knowing before using opk I had no idea lol

 

[bazzb]

Babydust right back at you!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Oh I'm sure you should know either way within the next couple of weeks! 4-6 weeks is the standard!

 

[bazzb]

Thanks I'm new to all this...
I wish we both didn't have to go through it
We will get our rainbows soon

 

[xoxo4angel]

I know what it's like to be in unchartered territory...I too wish we didn't have to have this experience, but it is nice having a cyber family. One that can really relate and knows what to say! My SIL just an hour ago told me I needed to relax and it will happen. While there may be truth to relaxing, I just didn't want to hear it from her!

Meanwhile can't wait until we join Mrs and Manny! November is weeks away!

 

[bazzb]

I can't wait either
I friggin hate when friends say just relax y use opk just let it happen
Most who say it don't have kids or have never had issues
I just wanna say shut up already!! Lol morons

I love our chats u ladies rock!!

 

[A1983]

Ladies, I just want to say if you are ovulating then stress wont affect you conceiving!! We ALL stress, whether it's about ttc or daily life....but if you are anything like me ttc will be in the back of your mind 99% of the time and the main thoughts of your day for most of the 2ww ( and ov time ;-)) It's only really when af arrives and I've stopped crying that I have a little switch off and re-gain my hope for the next month But I got my bfp in June after 4 months ttc and yes I worried about if I was going to get another af/if I would EVER hold my baby in my arms one day for each of those months!! Sadly I had a blughted ovum, found out via scan at 8 weeks, broke my heart. But I'm now having af and this was my 2nd month ttc, so I just keep telling myself I got pregnant...and i'll do it again...like EVERY lady I have read on here has!! This is a lovely post to follow, you'll get their ladies and you are certainly not alone inyour thoughts and worries-they are normal xxxx

 

[A1983]

*there

 

[xoxo4angel]

A1983 Sorry for your loss. I agree about stress...it's just annoying hearing people, who haven't been in our shoes, tell me to "relax and it will happen." I'm not sure why they think timing BD or going to my Dr is stressful. I am more stressed when I am in the dark about my body. If and when the ladies on this forum tell me to relax or think positive, then I will. We have a mutual goal and have shared similar experiences, so I have the utmost of respect for the advice any of you offer me.

Thank you again A1983 for sharing...I believe we will all get our sticky beans!

G'morning or afternoon ladies!

 

[bazzb]

how is every one?

 

[MrsNJR]

Gosh it's been busy on here last couple of days. Hope everyone keeping well!

One week today till my 1st scan, fingers crossed for good news! Xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

So nice for you Mrs! Fingers and toes crossed...I'm sure all will be well!

Hi Bazz and Manny!

 

[bazzb]

How is everyone? TGIF is all i can say... I am sooo sleepy!

 

[A1983]

Ohh, can I quickly ask - Mrs NJR&Manny, did you/are you taking baby aspirin? Bazz&4angel-what are your views on it? I took it for the first time from ov-af and this af is very heavy with small clots??!! Sorry for the tmi x

 

[xoxo4angel]

Bazz...I Fridays!

A1983. Good question about the baby aspirin...I'm curious too! I take prenatals, a B Complex and Royal Jelly.

 

[bazzb]

Ohh, can I quickly ask - Mrs NJR&Manny, did you/are you taking baby aspirin? Bazz&4angel-what are your views on it? I took it for the first time from ov-af and this af is very heavy with small clots??!! Sorry for the tmi x

I honestly know nothing about the baby aspirin, didn't even know about it until I read about it on this site! Hope the others can help

 

[bazzb]

I also have a massage for tomorrow ( I have scoleosis ) not sure if I spelt it right lol
So im excited for tomorrow, I have c shaped and its not too bad normally.

I only take prenatals, I started in march,.

 

[MrsNJR]

A1983 - yes I am taking baby aspirin, and pregnacare which contains frolic acid and other vitamins/minerals.

After my second m/c a nurse at the early pregnancy unit told me to start taking it once I'd started my next period. Her words were "it can't do u any harm". My GP was not really encouraging me to take it as he didn't think it was going to make any difference, but he said "take it if that's going to help u feel like u r doing something positive that might help" so I did!

His argument is that the "sticky blood" condition which aspirin could help with apparently is something that happens to a person who has already had a baby, and then in their subsequent pregnancies this sticky blood occurs. So he was saying that he's certain that that ISN'T the issue with me, so the aspirin isn't going to help.

But as the nurse said, it can't do any harm, so I started it as she suggested.

My 1st m/c was in January, and my second in May, and after that its taken until now to fall pregnant again. As I said above I am going for my 1st scan on Friday by when I'll be nearly 7 weeks. So just praying that we see a little heartbeat! I've never had good news from a scan, and never even seen an embryo (first time just an empty sac, and second time a sac and yolk sac, but no baby) so just hoping and praying that we DO get good news this time. It feels like such a long wait! Other than some pretty nasty cramps last Sunday I've been pretty well, no spotting or anything like that thank God, sore boobs and some nausea so I am telling myself that these are all great signs.

I have not told ANYONE except hubby, not any parents, sisters, mates, no one! Both times before we told both sets of parents and literally a week later have been poorly, and within another week or two it's been over. So this time I am holding out so that hopefully I can go and tell them all that I'm pregnant, AND we've had our scan and we know things are going well. Ooooooooh it makes me so nervous even TYPING it! Xxx