2011 - The Year Of The Baby!!

[rachelle1975]

:wave: ladies

to Wallie, check you out PUPO princess!!!

Mischief, so sorry about the pain Hun think that & the 2 week bleed I had was bloody terrible. Sorry you didn't get much out of the counselling, must admit I had my counselling a few weeks after the m/c when I was beating myself up for being a failure. It helped to process things a little more then. I actually saw the grief counsellor I used when mum died rather than the clinics which was better for me

Mrs S, nearly next week & scan time

AFM... yesterday was for the whole day barr 2 hours when I couldn't stop weeping as I was to tired & my head hurt... Jeez what a turnip!! The nausea & tiredness is constant... Darn little alien!!! Feel like I have a permanent hangover without the champagne buzz

 

[mrssunshine78]

I know less than a week now!!! I'm excited and scared if that makes sense? Did a digi today and I'm 3+ now!! Exciting

You're symptoms sound good rachelle, although I'm sure u don't agree!!

 

[rachelle1975]

Oh wow 3+ I've got mine to do this weekend!

What day is your scan?

Was speaking to my sister earlier, she had no cramps, no sickness, nothing! She was so scared she didn't tell is til her 12 week scan... I thought she was just being evasive due to the IVF

Yep symptoms are good, can't believe how exhausted I feel tho, thought people just exaggerated

 

[Blue12]

Sorry to drop in... but rach the symptoms are so shocking right lol!

 

[mrssunshine78]

My scan is tuesday, is yours Thursday?

 

[rachelle1975]

Yep Thursday.. 1 week today

I'm a bit nervous, worried about ectopics and also worried after last time.... DH tells me to stop worrying but i think that the worry is here to stay!

 

[mrssunshine78]

I'm just so scared that they won't find a heartbeat, it's just so frightening

 

[rachelle1975]

It's silly cos realistically it's all good isn't it? But these blooming progesterone pessaries mean you woulnd't know even if there was something amiss and that makes it more stressful... i think i'll drive myself cuckoo at this rate! Oooh i wonder what fruit or veggie you will be tomorrow when you are 6 weeks!

 

[mrssunshine78]

I cant believe I'm gonna be 6 wks tomorrow! I've got a little niggley type pain right in the middle of lower stomach which is new, its driving me crazy this not knowing

 

[rachelle1975]

Did you know that in 1 weeks time your womb will be the size of a grapefruit....?? See.. that'll be the niggling! My preggo book is full of weird information!

I'm positively mental... just went to buy a new skirt and top for work... checked to make sure my (.)(.) still looked like the underground map whilst i was there ... told you... .loopy!!! xx

 

[mrssunshine78]

Lol I keep feeling mine see if they feel any bigger! Lol I too am crazy! I'm starting to get few little veins, so that's quite exciting!

Hope you're right about my uterus!!!

 

[rachelle1975]

I promise it's all true... i was reading up on it! Hence the twinging/cramps and pain! i was trying to find out how big my womb was at 5 weeks to explain the fact i can't do my trousers up but alas... there was nothing on the web for that one!

Symptoms are so exciting - plus they apparently kick in for week 6 so i'd expect a flurry if i were you... unless you are going to be one of those gorgeous glowing yummy mummies who glide through pregnancy and give birth with nothing more than a sigh

 

[mrssunshine78]

What with my greasy hair and greasy spotty skin lol I doubt it!!

Just mentioned to the clinic about my pain/funny feeling and they haven't reassured me at all, she said we'll see how it is tomorrow, we might have to get u an earlier scan I much prefer your response! Just feel like crying now

Maybe u can't do your trousers up cos it's twins!!

 

[rachelle1975]

You paint such a pretty picture!!

I think the fact i can't do my trousers up is more to do with my constipation, cake eating and gigantic swollen ovaries

Right... whats the pain like... is it pain or is it discomfort, like a twingy feeling? The clinic are bad being like that - if it's not a severe pain and very uncomfortable they shouldn't be worrying you like that

 

[mrssunshine78]

It's a little bit like af pain, it's not too bad, but am aware of it, and it's not constant. I just wish I knew what was going on, getting upset typing this, which isn't good as I'm in hairdressers! Lol

 

[rachelle1975]

Right don't get upset - if you were to google AF type pains intermitten early pregnancy it would throw back a ton of information regarding implantation. I would think it's everything moving and make room for the bambino in your tummy chick.

IF and i say it in nice big letters... IF it was anything bad i think you would know. I was in proper pain like full-on period pain.... i think your little bambino is just snuggling in and letting you know it's here to stay!

Now... what you doing with your hair? My roots are shocking... i went from highlighted to reddy/brunette but it's a nice shade than my natural and that is now a good inch from my scalp and i can't do a head of dye as i'm duffers! poo!

 

[mrssunshine78]

Ok thanks, I so hope you're right, I'm really gonna try and think positive, god what the hell is wrong with me!

Only cut and blow dry have been getting full dark brown dye and few highlights usually, only noticed as she was doing it my roots are highly visible, oh well never mind they'll have to just wait.

 

[rachelle1975]

Don't worry I was crying Last night worried there would be no heartbeat at the scan so worrying is all good! You are doing everything right chick

 

[mrssunshine78]

i hadn't realised this would be the hardest part, i mean ttc for 3.5 yrs was bad, and ivf was also bad, but this is horrendous!

thanks for listening to me moan

 

[rachelle1975]

Don't worry you can return the favour