I think I just realized that it kinda bugs me a little bit when farther along preggos give me advice or compare my situation to theirs, especially if they've not had losses. Please NO ONE be offended because I am hormonal and getting nervous as my scan date approaches, and it's totally not really logical for me to feel this way. I understand they're offering advice because they care and want me to feel better. But it feels like they're giving advice to someone who has never been pregnant. It's like... denying my previous pregnancy. Like, I know I'm going to cramp in early pregnancy and not to worry. I've been there! The sad fact is that, yes this would be my first child(ren). But it's not my first pregnancy. I'm not in new territory yet. I've tread all this ground before.
Does anyone else feel the same way when someone pops on and says, "Oh, don't worry! I cramped at six weeks, it's normal!" Like, I know you're trying to help, but I've made it passed six weeks, so I know that.
"Oh, I was so nervous before my first ultrasound too, but everything was fine!" Well, good for you. That nightmare came true for me at my first ultrasound, so forgive me if I live in a world where it doesn't always turn out to be butterflies and sunbeams in the end.