I know what you mean about comparing medical systems...I grew up in Germany so when I was pregnant with my first and comparing notes with my pregnant cousin back home it was easy to feel like they weren't doing things right in the UK. I didn't get an NT scan, just a 12 week dating scan and a 20 week anatomy scan. My cousin had an early dating scan around 8 weeks, and then scans every month. To me it felt like they didn't really care so much here and were just looking to save money (which is part of it I'm sure...Germany works on a combination of national and private insurance, I think most people are insured privately through their work, but if you don't have private insurance for any reason you obviously still receive any medical care you need.)
Now I'm much more confident that all I need/want is 2 scans, and they do offer NT measurements now. Also, the care I got during labour really quite impressed me and I'm now sure the NHS takes great care of people if there's a true need. Of course, sometimes you have to wait a bit for non-urgent treatment and there's not really any extras, but that's fine. To exxagerate a bit: I'll gladly go without an early dating scan if that means someone else can get cancer treatment!
Anyway, my MS has taken another turn, I still feel okay-ish most of the day, but I now get proper "morning" sickness. I wake up, throw up (not much coming other than spit of course, but that's actually nice because it saves my throat and it doesn't get as bad that stomach acid would come up), and feel a bit better! Still dead tired a lot of the time though, and I've been napping when my daughter naps. My MIL keeps saying my daughter may grow out of her nap soon...no. Not happening. She'll nap until she's 18. Right now she still needs it anyway, she does sometimes fight it a bit but she always falls asleep in the end and then sleeps for 2+ hours, and on days when she doesn't get a nap because we're out or something, she gets soooo grumpy in the afternoon.
I'll stop blabbing now though, and get some breakfast.
Kdmalk, good luck for your BFP this month!!
Llammert, congratulations on your twins!!