2021 GD support thread.

Discussion in 'Gender Disappointment' started by motherofboys, Feb 12, 2021.

  1. Bevziibubble

    Bevziibubble Well-Known Member
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    Congratulations! :)
     
  2. motherofboys

    motherofboys Home educating, TTC-ing, crazy mum of 5 boys!

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    Congratulations
     
  3. Bittersweet

    Bittersweet Expecting no 2 after losses and premature birth

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    Thank you both
     
  4. topazicatzbet

    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    Hey ladies, I'd like to join you. I already have 3 boys and suffered pretty badly last time with GD as I thought he would be our last. I was happy to have a healthy boy but was grieving never having a daughter. My family/husband and friends didn't get it and made me feel guilty which made it worse. I still have down moments that I will never have a girl. Now we are expecting our 4th (I got dh to agree to one more) and I'm terrified I'm gonna go through it all again. I'm hoping it won't be as bad as we had a mmc before this one which was dragged out over 10 weeks and quite traumatic so I'm grateful to have a hopefully healthy baby growing.

    We have our gender scan in 18 days and the past 2 days I ve posted on some fb groups for nub theory, desperate for them to say girl.

    I just don't see myself being lucky enough to have a girl and feel this one will be another boy. (Which of course will still be loved) but I ll have to grieve the loss of a girl again and this will most definitely be our last.
     
  5. Bevziibubble

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    I've got everything crossed for you!
     
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  6. jellybeanxx

    jellybeanxx NTNP #4

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    @topazicatzbet so sorry to hear about your mmc, that sounds like a horrible time for you!
    Congratulations on your pregnancy, I totally understand what you’re feeling with wanting that girl. What did people say on the nub theory groups? I posted on a lot of those last time and even paid for nub specialists :blush: and had a mix of answers!
     
  7. topazicatzbet

    topazicatzbet mummy to 3 boys

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    I ve had a few leaning girl due to the leg partially blocking the nub and 2 possible boy.
     
  8. motherofboys

    motherofboys Home educating, TTC-ing, crazy mum of 5 boys!

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    Congratulations on your pregnancy. I hope you get your girl, but also wanted to say that my second run through of GD was nowhere near as bad as the first, so I hope it's the same for you if you have another boy.
     
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