I won't be seen until November 8th, and unless they have an issue at that appointment, I won't be scanned until 20 weeks. All my friends seem to get dating scans immediately, too. I guess you just have to pretend that you have no idea when you conceived or tell them you've had cramping and bleeding. Take a deep breath, Twilight. It's going to be a long ride! I wanted to wait to find out, too, but DH would die not knowing, lol.