have they mentioned magnesium, it helps the brain develop, that is what they did to me, ask them about that and the steroids shots, also, see what the mri shows, the baby could have been in a position to where they could not see it all, honestly, I wish i could answer that question for you, me with what i believe i would choose between the first two, we have so much technology out there now it is amazing what they can do, my little ones were born at 29 wks, and they are doing great, it seems there are no health issues right now, and they are healthy and eating, and breathing really well, they were 2 and a half pounds when born, they are now up to 4 and a half pounds, keep faith and follow your heart and listen to your mind body and soul, and your baby, your wee one will let you know in some way as to what to do, I know that is hard to believe but it worked for me and they are just great, my little ones will be home soon, there is much more they can do out of the womb, oppose to in the womb. You never know what will be and what wont be, but mention the magnesium and the steroid shots and i would wait to see what the mri shows, and follow your heart and listen. Good luck with your wee one, keep me updated