33yr ttc#2 - buddies needed!!!

[curiousowl]

Awww, sorry Mel!

 

[ladders]

Sorry to hear that Mel that sucks

 

[happycupcake]

Sorry Mel

I don't have anything interesting to say tbh, ICs are a touch lighter than yesterday and FRER is barely visible, if at all, so looks like things are going the same way as before. Will post photos on the thread I started

 

[bassit25]

Hay ladies it's been I while sorry not kept up with post had some great news followed by some sadness and to be honest needed to get some head space from all the charting and date checking etc had few weeks to feel sorry for myself and a cycle inbetween so here I am wanting to join you all and I promise I'll be better company this time x x

 

[happycupcake]

Hay ladies it's been I while sorry not kept up with post had some great news followed by some sadness and to be honest needed to get some head space from all the charting and date checking etc had few weeks to feel sorry for myself and a cycle inbetween so here I am wanting to join you all and I promise I'll be better company this time x x

No worries I have been the same because of stress. Life is weird sometimes x x

 

[melewen]

I'm sorry bassit

I'm weird about the boards too. Keeping up with the boards during most of my cycle actually stresses me out and makes me focus more on TTCing. So I try not to check them much and focus on other things but then when I have weird symptoms or AF comes I need that support! But I've been thinking sooo much about stress and how it impacts fertility. Trying to be the least stressed I can possibly be this month

 

[ricschick]

Sorry af came Mel!

Welcome back bassit!

Not much to report from me just plodding along until ovulation day.

 

[ladders]

Oh bassit I'm so sorry, If had the same, least that's what I'm assuming has happened and if so I'm really sorry and know exactly how you feel.

 

[bassit25]

Thanks girls yes 6wks6days but I'm not charting of testing for next few months but would love to keep talking about ntnp with everyone 🤗🤗🤗 who am I kidding i will always eye up the dates but no pos until day before af let's see how long I stick to it ha ha ha

 

[curiousowl]

I'm so very sorry bassit.

 

[ladders]

Bassit I was 7w4d so definitely know how you feel. If not had an ad since my mc on the 28th and I have no idea where I am in my cycle as I had positive hots for nearly 3 weeks post. It's really starting to get me down now. Have you had af since did you say?

 

[bassit25]

Yes I had a really short cycle which is how I was before bc so maybe if anything it's kicked me back into normality but gonna just go with the flow now going away next week so hopefully can chill out and get my head back in the game think hubby was more hurt then me but we not put off but slightly not as obsessive with all the app logging etc but thanks girlies for having me back and look forward to our next adventure

 

[SadakoS]

Hi Bassit, I'm really sorry for your loss.

Well cd1 here and I'm actually really relieved! Thought I'd messed myself up taking the soy but had a 33 day cycle which is a day less than last month and 11 days less than the one before. Going to try soy again and I'm not going away this month so should be able to temp and opk properly. All in this cycle! This is it!

 

[happycupcake]

Sadako I'm sorry af is here but it's good your cycles seem to be improving

 

[JessyG]

Hi girls. Just popping in to say hiya. Sorry to hear about your loss Bassit. Good idea about forgetting about the charting temping for a while although i know its not easy!

I am still here but most of the time dont have anything useful to say doh. My head is mashed most of the time. Hope you are all keeping well.

 

[curiousowl]

Oddly enough, AF seems to be shorter than normal this cycle. This actually happened after my other chemical too. Strange.

 

[Sander]

Sorry for your loss Bassit

Also sorry af got you Sadako, at least you can move on to the next cycle now!

Curious, maybe your O day will be quicker then Hopefully!

I'm CD12, had some EWCM this evening so will start using OPK's tomorrow, see how they look. I'm happy because this is way more similar to my May cycle where I O'd CD17 instead of CD25 (which obviously is a huge difference). I honestly think though that last cycle was whacked out. I'm hoping to have something more normal this cycle. Definitely trying to take a more relaxed approach this month. Will only be temping during EWCM until confirmed O, then stopping. Also trying to exercise more, take some of the stress out of the process and enjoy the summertime

 

[ricschick]

Sander hopefully you and I will ovulate sooner this month!

Sadakos sorry af came but I'm glad your cycle is getting shorter!! Fx for this cycle xx

 

[Sander]

Had suuuuper stretchy EWCM tonight, OPK was not positive yet - but I usually have EWCM a few days beforehand. Going to start BD'ing tonight - at CD13/14 I'm just thrilled my body is cooperating this month. Hoping O will happen and it's not just my body getting ready and then failing -_-

Fx you ovulate early this month too Rics!

 

[SadakoS]

Fx your opk gets darker for you Sander! Do you temp?

I'm wondering if I maybe had a chemical. I definitely didn't imagine the blue lines on the clear blue tests and af is worse than usual - every time I go for a wee there's big clots in the toilet - sorry for the tmi!