33yr ttc#2 - buddies needed!!!

[SadakoS]

Mel I'm sorry about bfn, but I still hope AF stays away!

And cupcake that sounds awful your poor dd!

 

[melewen]

Oh no cupcake so sorry about your DD! That sounds terrible

So I just got a near positive on an OPK... very odd. I believe I took OPKs last month before AF was due and very faint line. I didn't record it though so who knows. Still can't feel my cervix. At the very least I'm glad my LP seems longer now. Vit b6 must be working

 

[ricschick]

Ahh Mel I'm sorry! Still time yet tho xx

Oh cupcake your poor daughter that must have really hurt bless her!! Fx for your faint pic line!! Can we see a pic? Xx

 

[ladders]

Oh cupcake that's exciting are you posting a picture? I'm sorry about your daughter that sounds awful bet she was in so much pain!

Mel I'm sorry about the bfn but strange about the opk hopefully it means your not out yet!

Sadako your chart still looks good! Have you tested again?

I'm not sure if I ovulated or not, my temps aren't as high as normally post ov and boobs don't really hurt. I wish now id done opks on holiday so at least it have a better idea but thought as couldnt bd there was no point. I feel so glum about it I just want af so I can start properly

 

[curiousowl]

Sadako, I definitely see that line on the IC! You know I don't believe FF so I think you're earlier than 14dpo!

If I'm earlier than 14 dpo it's less likely though since we only dtd once the whole time since I was away. Something just needs to happen!

Hmmm. Good point. Maybe you're more like 12dpo. That could explain faint lines and your BD would still be in the window.

 

[SadakoS]

Well I did another ic with pretty song wee after a good hold and it's a total BFN. I'll try again in the morning but then I think I'll just give it up and wait for AF!

 

[melewen]

FX that the witch stays away from both of us sadako. How long have you temped?

 

[melewen]

Ugh, I got a little pink tinged blood when I stuck some TP up there (TMI hahaha) so AF is coming. Blehhhh. On to the next cycle I suppose.

How long have all you been trying, who are still actively trying?

 

[SadakoS]

Oh no Melewen, but I suppose good that you've had a bit of a longer lp.

This is only my second cycle temping. I've bought clearblue digital for the morning so I should know for sure, no more squinting at lines! I'm betting bfn, I just don't feel it.

 

[melewen]

Ugh I want you to take it asap! Haha. If your last LP was 10 days I don't know what else you could be but pg!

Yes yay for a longer LP I suppose. Still no spotting so I'm hoping I can consider it a full 12 days. I'm way more bummed than I thought I'd be. I just don't want to go through what we did last time. It wasn't all that long really but it was so hard on me emotionally!

 

[curiousowl]

Mel, fingers still crosssd for you! This is now my fourth cycle.

 

[SadakoS]

Digi says not pregnant! It's so reassuring to see it in black and white and not stress over the result!

This is my 3rd cycle but we only dtd once and I was away for the important part of it. Looking forward to the next cycle now, just need af to show up first...

 

[ricschick]

Good luck for next cycle sadakos xx

 

[happycupcake]

Sadako when is af due?

Mel, I'm sorry but as you say, it's really positive that your lp is longer

Thank you everyone, daughter is fine. I can't remember if I said before but I saw the X-ray (doc turned a blind eye to hubby taking a photo of it!) and it really was stuck right in the bone, like halfway into her heel bone! Thank God they didn't have to put her under to break it. She's fine now though, it's tender but she's good. She had gas & air when they did it and was high as a kite lol she came home and said "all I could hear was this doctor with a funny accent I didn't understand, echoeing round the room, I didn't have a clue what he was talking about so I just said yeah ok" lol! She did panic a bit according to my husband, he said she almost broke his hand.

This month has just been a nightmare for us, it literally has been one thing after another and I've been so stressed out I've lost half a stone, haven't been eating properly at all, I haven't remembered to take my vitamin supplements and I didn't bother with OPKs, I just didn't think about it. I poas because of the metallic taste and nausea when smelling certain things like our son's juice I couldn't stand it yesterday which doesn't usually bother me unless the filthy little fiend burps in my face!
I saw something at 7dpo but it wasn't anything definitive, but today there are faint but clear pink lines at 9dpo. The wider Cassanovum test don't give me lines ever for some reason so I'm ignoring that. The others are the same One Step brand but different batches. Top two are 7dpo and bottom two are today at 9dpo.
I'm not getting excited as this has resulted in chemicals on quite a few occasions now and given how the months has been I'm not holding out hope that this will progress. It's just easier to assume it won't

 

[ladders]

Mel I'm sorry about bfn, but if you still haven't come on properly there's still hope. I'm still actively trying although struggling this month as have no idea where I am in my cycke. We had 2 months ntnp then two months actively trying and 2 month resulted in my mc so this is 5th cycle. It took 10 cycles to get my dd which felt like forever and I definitely put alot of pressure on my dh. I was feeling really happy we got lucky after only 4 cycles this time but obviously it's not going to be that easy so I definitely understand your worries.

Cupcake I'm so excited for you, I'm praying that this is your month you really deserve it. Keep posting any tests you do. I see your lines clearly

I'm now not sure I ovulated. Temps still all over the place and I had a ton of ewcm this morning and cervix still high and feeling open. Opk negative and hpt negative, not sure if opk darker than usual but could be a different batch. I just hate not knowing where I am in my cycle it's really getting me down

 

[SadakoS]

Can so easily see those lines Cupcake! Fx!

Since af hasn't turned up yet I'm guessing that I ovulated on cd24 instead of 17 like ff says so af would be due about Wednesday I think. We'll see!

 

[curiousowl]

Glad you're not too disappointed Sadako. Hope AF starts soon and next cycle is your cycle.

 

[citrusfruit]

Following cupcake, good to see you back posting. I can see lines and hope they get darker for you.

Sorry to everyone who is out or is feeling out, especially those that got lines on tests. So frustrating.

Good luck ladders, really hope things settle down soon and you can get back into a predictable pattern. Or that you don't need to!

 

[ricschick]

Cupcake I can clearly see those lines!!! I think it's very promising!!! Eek!

 

[melewen]

Cupcake I hope those get darker! Keep us posted

AF here in full. Oh well. On to the next cycle