33yr ttc#2 - buddies needed!!!

[ricschick]

It's very possible! I had a chemical before my last daughter and I remember my period being heavier than normal. Xx

 

[dustergrl]

Hi ladies, checking in. Things have been up and down here. CD8 here, which is a bummer because I felt really good about last cycle.

Sorry for your loss, bassit.

 

[ladders]

Hi duster nice to hear from you! Know you'd rather not be on here like the rest of us but least we have each other.

I'm totally annoyed and fed up of this cycle I have no idea when/if i ovulated and just want this cycle to be over so I can actually start again. My temps all over the place all signs show i ended up ovulating on Saturday but temps don't agree , been having cramps for the last 3 dsys but no sign of af. Ahhh im so fed up!

 

[curiousowl]

Hi duster.

Sorry ladders! I want it to end so you can move on.

 

[happycupcake]

I'm sorry Ladders. I hope things are clearer soon for you

 

[ladders]

Thanks ladies, im pretty sure I have no chance at being pregnant, multiple bfns have agreed and so I just want to move forward and get back into trying. I feel like iv lost so much time with the mc and my temp rose again today so don't think af coming soon which just sucks

 

[curiousowl]

We are potty training this weekend and I am seriously wondering why I want to do this again!

Just kidding... well, mostly.

 

[ricschick]

Ahh the nightmare that is potty training!! I've tried with my little girl numerous of times and she just doesn't want too!! I've bought new knickers offered treats etc just just doesn't want too! So I just offer the choice each day and hopefully she will change her mind!! My last daughter was like this too she knew what she had to do but just didn't want too. 🙄

 

[curiousowl]

Ahh the nightmare that is potty training!! I've tried with my little girl numerous of times and she just doesn't want too!! I've bought new knickers offered treats etc just just doesn't want too! So I just offer the choice each day and hopefully she will change her mind!! My last daughter was like this too she knew what she had to do but just didn't want too. 🙄

It's awful! Hopefully tomorrow will go better.

 

[Sander]

Have you guys ever seen Maury? I mean really, how is it that these people are able to have kids so easily?

Anyways, sorry I cant relate to the potty training troubles ladies

Also sorry ladders, hopefully August is your month!! All my fingers crossed for you

In the meantime, I remember one of you ladies had autistic children - could someone remind me who that was?

Thanks!

 

[ladders]

How strange I'm potty training too, my dd is fantastic when at home and naked from waist down, runs off to do wees amd poos on the potty and never has an accident. As soon as she's wearing knickers she just wees like she has a nappy on, even if I keep asking her. Ahhh it's really frustrating not sure how we will make the full move when she's like this!

So I'm still getting high temps no af and still complete bfns. Never before have i wanted af to show! It's five weeks now since I started bleeding with my mc, where is the stupid witch?!

Sorry sander whoes Maury?

 

[Sander]

Ladders- He's the American version of what I think (?) is Jerry Springer in the UK? Anyways, it's basically trash TV. I just watch it and all of these men/women have a million children. So unfair haha

Sorry this has been such a long process for you. I think you mentioned you unfortunately had a MC before DD? Hopefully as much as this MC has been unbelievably difficult, will result in a healthy baby #2 for you!

 

[SadakoS]

I used to love watching maury when I was off work but I don't think it's on here anymore!

I shold be potty training my DD as she's 2.5 but I just can't bring myself to do it! She'll sit on potty/seat on toilet but has never done anything yet!

Af gone away for me now on cd6. I'll have a week of chilling out then start opk I think.

 

[curiousowl]

How strange I'm potty training too, my dd is fantastic when at home and naked from waist down, runs off to do wees amd poos on the potty and never has an accident. As soon as she's wearing knickers she just wees like she has a nappy on, even if I keep asking her. Ahhh it's really frustrating not sure how we will make the full move when she's like this!

So I'm still getting high temps no af and still complete bfns. Never before have i wanted af to show! It's five weeks now since I started bleeding with my mc, where is the stupid witch?!

Sorry sander whoes Maury?

The advice I was given was to have them go in just loose garments or dresses for girls, no knickers for a while. We're still in the beginning stages so no idea if it works, just what I've heard.

 

[happycupcake]

I feel for anyone doing the whole potty training thing. Our four and five year old because of their autism haven't grasped telling us they have to go, and fear of the toilet doesn't help and they find potties uncomfortable to use. We are currently waiting on the incontinence team to get in touch with us for some help with this.

I'm having a weird time, I don't know if anyone can help? I had positive tests for six days, Friday (14dpo, day before af due) I had seven positive tests although one or two were fainter, I then had some pink/light brown spotting. Saturday I had barely there lines on ICs but a faint but clear line on a CB, but started bleeding. So assumed another chemical and counted that as CD1. Yesterday hardly any bleeding and today it's there when I wipe but I did two ICs which are more obvious than Saturday although still faint. I would be 17dpo by this point, although still counting it as CD3. I don't know what to think? With the other chemicals I have always had tests get fainter to then completely negative before af showed up. This would surely be too early on for any leftover hCG to be hanging around, especially the fact my ICs today have been a little more clear. I haven't had this happen before and my GP is on leave and they won't let me see anyone else because they're short staffed today

 

[ladders]

Oh cupcake im not sure, doesn't sound like a full period for you so could it just be an early pregnancy bleed? Have you used any other tests like the frer or Superdrug? What is your chart looking like?

 

[happycupcake]

My chart is now a new one since I just assumed that was CD1 for me, but if my temp was on that previous chart it would be just below the cover line.
I'm getting a wonky CB and a faint line from diluted afternoon pee on a Superdrug and what I'm pretty sure is an imaginary line or indent on a FRER. I'm paranoid about ectopic pregnancy because the majority of stories I'm reading about fluctuating hCG concern vanishing twin and ectopic

 

[ladders]

Cupcake how are you doing? Amy news?

Cd1 for me, would have been happy but thought I saw a line last night so I'm a bit gutted now.

 

[SadakoS]

Sorry ladders, i hope this cycle is more straightforward for you.

How's everyone else doing?

 

[curiousowl]

Darn, sorry for the mixed messages ladders. That's hard.

Afm, fine I guess. CD12. We will start the BD marathon tonight since I O'd CD17 last cycle. Normally it's CD19 though. I am determined to have better timing than the last 3 months.