Anna, your numbers sound great and I too found that the symptoms sort of come in waves. The doctor said it's a good sign all is well. I'd have a good day, then two worse ones (the flip side is, when you start to feel better at 12-16 weeks, you'll have several good days for each bad one, so it does get better!
I think the hormones definitely peak and ebb. Everything you're mentioning sounds perfectly normal to me!
And no matter how awful you feel, there is always hope that you will be one of the lucky ones that feels better after like week 9. That happened for our friend who was just a few weeks ahead of us (she was only truly sick for about 4 weeks).
For you, Sveta and anyone else who's stressing about mc, I will say first, I agree with Sveta's hubby. This forum definitely draws those who are seeking support after a loss, and it also draws those of us who've had some issues ttc to begin with and will worry more (naturally). My hubby said something similar and told me to get off the boards. LOL I don't want to downplay your concerns, because I know that like me you are probably seeing things on the boards that scare you to death. I actually found that I had to avoid the boards for a while as I got farther along, because I (like you) thought I'd be safe after 12 weeks, only to go on the 2nd tri boards and see a couple people who mc. I was stunned and so scared!
BUT, and this is what I want you to keep in mind - those ARE the exceptions to the rule. The whole time I was in 2nd tri I only saw like 3 mc posts. Most people do NOT mc at ANY point, especially after 12 weeks (the risk goes down to like 5% or something after 12 weeks). It definitely can happen in 1st tri, but even then the statistics are low overall. And nearly all of those relate to genetic or chromosomal abnormalities, not anything the mother did or did not do. It can happen, but it's not as common as it seems here on BnB.
So try not to stress.
I know it is hard because I
still worry something will happen.
I think especially with the first, because our group in particular has waited and tried for so long, we are more prone to worry over every little possibility. The only advice I can really give that may help is to know that almost every woman worries in 1st tri, but you'll (and baby will) almost certainly be fine!! I just found I had to take it one day at a time, celebrating the fact that all was well for another day (and quite honestly, I was so ill for a while that the misery of MS became my focus for most of the summer, but again - one day at a time!)
So this will give you guys a laugh - I have not been too worried about labor and delivery YET. That is, till hubby told me he'd been watching some birth videos and I got the bright idea to go view some myself. YIKES!
I'm trying to comfort myself with the idea that I am DEFINITELY planning to get an epidural. One of our good friends just had her baby last week and she did great (with epi) so I'm focusing on that, not the scary videos LOL! I know better than to go looking for stuff like that. And I will say, the ones where the mother has an epidural don't look to bad (as far as mom's perceived pain) - just scary to see the full view of what's happening. But the babies are SO sweet and adorable from the very first instant, and that's what it's all about!! So I'm trying to keep focused on the fact that, however he has to arrive (he's currently breech so may be a mandatory c-section) we'll get to meet him that day!
Today we go back to the OB for our 30 week visit! I'll be 31 weeks Sunday and can't believe how fast it's going now. I'll report back!
Have a great day ladies!!