looking for some bnb buddies who are 36 years and older. my dh (soon to be 40) and i (36) are ttc #1 i went off bcp around dec. 2007 (i was on it forever) we half-a$$ed tried 'till about nov. 2008. in nov. 08 i got my blood checked to see if everything was ok and it was. dh had his "special" test in jan. 09. all was well! then for the final test, i had an hsg (test to see if tubes are clear) in june 09. everything normal (doctor even said for many women they get preg soon after as it clears the way). not yet for me i feel like june is when we really started feeling like, ok, we're good to go, let's make this happen. i also started acupuncture 3 weeks ago. now the summer is coming to end (i'm a teacher so i worry about my stress level going back up...summer was "supposed" to be the time) and i'm in the tww period. i know i'm totally over-analyzing any "symptoms" i may/may not be feeling. this site has been so helpful in helping me to be more aware of signs, when to test, etc. even if af does come this month, i feel like i'd be ok with it, as i have so many tools to carry on with me now. i know many women 36+ get pregnant, but i can't help to worry/wonder. would love to hear from any ladies in or near the same boat!!!!