mal- I'm so happy for you, I don't think birth is ever what we expect it to be! I can't wait to read your birth story.
Charlie- my best advice on BF'ing is follow your instincts and just feed the baby when he's hungry- Also, if it doesn't work out for you, don't beat yourself up- go into with a positive attitude and see how it goes! Both my boys took right to it, I never had bloody nipples or any latch troubles, so I am probably not the best at giving advice, I never had any issues, but I know for most ladies its not that easy!