Wow lots to read, thanks for welcoming me! Our down regging (as you call it) here is three weeks of high dose then when you start stimms it is 2 or 3 week of half the dose or something. I won't be starting IVF till the new year like Feb or March but I will be starting IUI in oct/nov. I am really hoping the IUI works cause I read the procedure for IVF and it is scary! Is the egg retrieval painful? They said they give you conscious sedation where I will be going but a needle through the vaginal wall into the ovary does not sound like a picnic...
Well, the news isn't great from my first ultrasound. The little guy is over a week behind in development. Yesterday, July 28, I was 5 weeks 5 days gestational age and exactly 4 weeks fetal age. The doctor said the ultrasound only shows four and a half weeks gestational age, so almost a week and a half behind.
Makes sense given my age, I guess. Suppose that's why I didn't want to get too excited about the BFP because of this risk (and so many others down the road). I go next week for another ultrasound -- maybe we've got a late bloomer! It was tough to see it on the monitor though, it was small compared to other images I'd seen on line; and it looking so vulnerable makes you want to protect it all the more.
Thanks for all the support. We'll see what happens next week, but I'm not optimistic. I'll talk with the ladies on the miscarriage thread, see what their experience is.
I don't know where else to vent my frustrations. Our FS told us to cut drinking right back from 10 units a week during treatment for me and a couple of months before treatment for DH. So this is basically nothing or one drink a week. However my DH continues to have a pint of beer every day, which is way over 10 units a week. I have asked him to stop but he sais he enjoys it. The trouble is I am an ex smoker and during my miscarriage i transgressed and smoked for a few days, I also had a couple of cigeretttes on holiday too, so he thinks i am being hypocritical as i haven't been perfect. However I have given up again totally now and do so much other stuff like controlling my diet, exercising, acupuncture, taking chinese herbs and he does nothing except take a vitamin ill i force on him every night, all he has to do is not drink and he won't even do that. He thinks because he is not getting drunk that its ok, even though he is an intelligent man and he was there when the doctor told him to stop. I am beginning to wonder if its a form of passive aggression towards me, we aren't getting on amazingly and maybe its his way of hurting me. I am in such a dilema about it as if we are like this now, maybe we won't cut it through the whole process and we shouldn't be doing this. I am coming up 37 though and realise my time is running out and if i don't do it now, it probably won't happen. However having a child when one's relationship is on very rocky ground is probably a selfish thing to do. I am going to think about it today and probably approach him tonight. if he doesnt want this anymore with me, its best to find out now. Sigh
I don't know where else to vent my frustrations. Our FS told us to cut drinking right back from 10 units a week during treatment for me and a couple of months before treatment for DH. So this is basically nothing or one drink a week. However my DH continues to have a pint of beer every day, which is way over 10 units a week. I have asked him to stop but he sais he enjoys it. The trouble is I am an ex smoker and during my miscarriage i transgressed and smoked for a few days, I also had a couple of cigeretttes on holiday too, so he thinks i am being hypocritical as i haven't been perfect. However I have given up again totally now and do so much other stuff like controlling my diet, exercising, acupuncture, taking chinese herbs and he does nothing except take a vitamin ill i force on him every night, all he has to do is not drink and he won't even do that. He thinks because he is not getting drunk that its ok, even though he is an intelligent man and he was there when the doctor told him to stop. I am beginning to wonder if its a form of passive aggression towards me, we aren't getting on amazingly and maybe its his way of hurting me. I am in such a dilema about it as if we are like this now, maybe we won't cut it through the whole process and we shouldn't be doing this. I am coming up 37 though and realise my time is running out and if i don't do it now, it probably won't happen. However having a child when one's relationship is on very rocky ground is probably a selfish thing to do. I am going to think about it today and probably approach him tonight. if he doesnt want this anymore with me, its best to find out now. Sigh
angelcakes, those are my favourite two things as well. last christmas i made my husband a grotto, i cut out santa's feet all the way from the chimney and down the hall,and snow on the ground and got a santa that climbs in and out of a chimney.
i love it!! can't wait til we have our own kids.
vineyard- twins!! that's great. how are you feeling.
Sammy2009 - Well how are you feeling now, is the away yet?
Wrightywales - Hey hun, not long to wait now. Fx for you
MaryB - I am soo sorry to hear that. You need to hang on in there, I wouldn't go to the miscarraige threads as you may spook yourself out. You need to stay positibe, PMA PMA PMA
Mrs G - Listened to the song - your a sappy git...but I like it. Ha, I'll now need to go and google the song I'll play to my embies...maybe my first dance!!!
Brambletess - Dont write him off just yet. He may just be stressed by the whole infertility thing (even though he'll not want to show it) and maybe thats why you are having some problems. I'm quite sure once all the stress ot TTC is away and you have your wee baby it'll all be fine
Sammy, Well, that's confusing! I checked with my engineer DH (yay!) and it looks like the volumes are equal: three 300 boxes add up to one 900 (as you probably saw) and so **unless you can tell the concentrations are different** seems you can take 150 from one of the 300 or from the 900, either one.
And the reference to 36 and 108 (3 x 36) may be the measure of what's actually in the vials but stated in different units from what you are measuring the shot with, meaning there may be more in the 300 vial than your total 2 x 15 (actually, 150 unit) doses. That's the way it was with Follistim.
**I'm no nurse though*** if you can reach one, all the better...but this is your first day so there shouldn't be a danger of overstimulating if the measure ends up being wrong, just tell your doctor what you did.