4DPO today (This is an old thread!!!!)

[Naaxi]

Lol in two days I will only be 5dpo that sounds waaay too early for a bfp LOL and if it is a bfp and then a chemical my heart would break. I will try to wait for the 30th or the 1st at the earliest.

I am so lucky right now that Rowan loves sleep as much as his mummah. But I doubt the next will be the same sadly. And I need eight hours or I become a monster.

 

[Naaxi]

Spotting more again. Maybe AF is coming 5 days early... We will see if my temp plummets in the morning I guess... this is all so frustrating. I am kind of gutted that it hasn't worked or that there is something wrong. Spotting this early doesn't seem normal.

 

[Eltjuh]

STUPID !!! I'm starting to think I'm out now!!
I know technically it's still early, but I can't help but 'expect' a bfp at 10dpo if I'm gonna get one, cause I did both times before!
I can't imagine the sperm surviving that long anyway 3-4 days.... Especially affected by anti-depressants (even if the doc said it won't do anything...)

Feeling pretty down at the moment! This is exactly why I didn't want to hope for anything, but my stupid BBT made me!!!


Sorry for the whinge, just needed to get it out!!

 

[Naaxi]

No, that's what I am here for. And I am so sorry that it was a bfn for you I still have hope for you that you just implanted late and it will be a few more days for you. I don't know what's going on with me. Going to sleep though and we will see how the spotting is in the morning. Guess if AF is here it is better she come now than later. But I still have a feeling this is my month. Just wish I knew... gah. Sleep. Talk to you in the morn When I am 4dpo... again... lol.

 

[Eltjuh]

HA! that's when all this started - 4 dpo
Can't wait to find out if you are!! You never know, considering you were spotting with Rowan aswell!!

I just wish it was sunday already and AF would show up, or not! Just want to know now, and it's only thursday!! Had enough!!

How are you still awake?? It's like 1.30 over there! Well, 12.45 when you wrote your reply I guess (It's about 7hrs difference right??)

Lucas wanted to paint a minute ago but he didn't want to wear his apron so he's not painting! And I'm in a crappy mood now!

 

[Eltjuh]

NO!! I'm not doing it!!! - Just saw a picture of someone having a positive on a digital and a negative (or very very faint) on a line test - same tests as I'm using so naturally I now want to go and pee on my digital test!!!
NOOOOOOOOO!!!! Don't do it!!!!

But I want to!!!!!!

 

[Naaxi]

Eek, wait for the digital, they need more hcg. And seeing the words "not pregnant" is crushing. And sorry you're in a foul mood. It is funny how their moods affect us eh? Lol. But you gotta stick to your rules.

I was up late because I have to finish a pair of shoes I sold on Etsy and ship them out tomorrow. I was only able to finish one shoe before Derek got cranky and wanted me to go to sleep though. I sit in bed andmake them lol. I'm a night owl though, but now I am up early. (So tired and cranky haha)

I am so confused. Temp went up today, which is a great sign, means the spotting can't be AF, right? Super tempted to take a test. It will be negative. Don't test. Don't test. Don't test. Too early for either outcome. Clearly I am insane. Ellaaaaaa I wanna pee on something.

 

[prettyjen82]

So sorry about BFN. I peed on a digi the same day I peed on a FRER. I didnt even hold pee for a while and it came back "Pregnant" I was shocked bc the FRER barely showed a line with FMU. It may be best to wait. Oh and the 10miu Internet cheapies i bought are still only showing a very very faint line..Waist of money..come on implantation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and BFP's!!!!

 

[Naaxi]

Hey Jen, has the news sunk in yet? How are you feeling? Are you waiting to announce or have you screamed it to the world yet?

 

[diamondlove33]

Spotting more again. Maybe AF is coming 5 days early... We will see if my temp plummets in the morning I guess... this is all so frustrating. I am kind of gutted that it hasn't worked or that there is something wrong. Spotting this early doesn't seem normal.

Naaxi! Maybe implantation bleeding? FX for you.. and Eltjuh you're not out until AF shows - have faith.. but not too much, I know how hard it is when you get your hopes up


and jen how are you feeling?

 

[Naaxi]

Thanks, diamond! I sure hope it is implantation but it started the late evening of what ff says is my 2dpo... and although google says implantation can happen anywhere from 2 to 16dpo, I have a hard time completely believing it is what it is lol. I sure hope so though. If I am not knocked up this month I am going to be sooo crushed. I have a feeling I am and I am spotting with a temp rise... so it just seems too odd of a cycle to be nothing.

 

[Eltjuh]

Too late!! About 5 minutes after I wrote it I did the digital Lucas was downstairs crying for daddy, who had just left and I was like, as I have to go downstairs anyway (we have our living room upstairs, bit weird, but that's the way these houses are built) I thought I'd do the digi Can't believe how stupid I am!! Just wanted to snap that test in 2
Was pretty annoyed after and upset. And to top it off, when I asked hubby if he thought I was crazy, he said: no, I just don't get why you let it 'control' your life! That did not go down well with me.... Men just don't understand do they! It's not like I wanna think about it all day!! Just can't help it!!
Anyway, we bought some superdrug tests earlier cause hubby doesn't really trust the cheap ones and hubby hid them for me, as I don't wanna waste them.... So I'm gonna keep testing with the ones I've got cause they're cheapies anyway!

I really hope we both are pregnant aswell Naaxi!!
Can't wait to see what your temp is gonna do and can't wait to squint at pictures of your tests!! haha

I'm trying to hold on to a little hope that maybe I'm only 9dpo today (as that's what FF said at first) and that maybe I am 10dpo tomorrow and maybe I'll get a positive then! Just REALLY don't want to see that temp dropping tomorrow!

 

[Naaxi]

We'll do the temp stay up dance! Hahaha! So I was dumb and took a test. I have no self control. What is wrong with me?! Jeez. Oh well. It might put a logical head on my shoulders. I don't think I have any symptoms really. Nothing new to my tww anyways. Cramping, excess saliva, and occasionally mild nausea. The only newcomer is the spotting. Whih has only been there when I wipe, but definitely still there.

And hubby doesn't understand and thinks I am crazy.But it is very hard not to obsess. Yesterday I told him I need his feedback and he said he realy didn't know what to say or do so I told him to just hug ne and he didn't even do that. Pout. Sometimes I feel very alone in all this.

 

[Eltjuh]

I know, I feel like hubby doesn't really care what happens most of the time.... I know he wants it too, at least that's what he says so I go by that, but sometimes it feels like he doesn't care! I told him earlier today, I said: either you don't know how much I want it, or you just don't want it yourself - cause he said that he didn't get why I obsess over it so much!

I can't believe you tested Take it it was the obvious outcome then - bfn.... ???
I posted my chart on countdown to pregnancy to get some votes on it and at the moment it's 88% positive (14 votes) and 13% negative (2 votes) (should be 12% negative technically or 87% positive, cause otherwise it's 101% in total I know, I'm weird! )

Your 'symptoms' are sounding good though!

 

[Naaxi]

I haven't seen a place to post charts on countdown to pregnancy. But I do really like the look of yours. And of course my test was bfn. I can't believe how weak I am LOL. I hope that I can wait now to pee on something. Like jeez lol!

Took another nap today with Rowan. Starting to think thst is a sign, I hsve napped with him in forever. I normally feel I have too much to do so it outweighs the fatigue. Guess we will see!

And the only reason my hubby "wants" it is because he sees how badly I want it. Sigh.

 

[Naaxi]

Four days until AF if I go by my semi usual 28 days, and still spotting so I think it might be the bitch teasing me. I'm kinda bummed.

 

[Eltjuh]

Surely it would be too early after ovulation? How long is your lp usually? Mine is 12 days and i'm 11 dpo now (going by monday as my o day, might be tuesday) so i'm expecting af on sunday, maybe monday....
Temp was still high this morning! 36.96 and it's not like i was hot, we even slept with the window open. Whereas other nights i've been all hot and sweaty waking up several times during the night...i can't make my own temp go up can i?
Fngers crossed for a positive test soon! Could really do with one right now.

You having naps could definitely be a good sign! Hopefully it is! Hurry up and get to next week so you can test! I wanna know now

 

[Eltjuh]

Oh and i forgot to say, i just uploaded my chart in the pregnancy test gallery (unsure category) on countdown to pregnancy, seen other people do it before so i thought i would too!

 

[Naaxi]

Hahaha Ella! Good morning to you I am still finishing these darn shoes, juat taking a break as I noticed you replied

Loving your chart, lady! Eek I want you to pee on things, hahaha! Hurry and get your bfp already!

And we have been over this, I don't know how long my usual LP is. I (apparently) always O later than cd 16, usually around 19, and always have a cycle between 28 and 31 days. So I think I have a short LP, and pwrhaps that is why I spot. I was never successful at charting before this month, to tell you the truth. I gave up while trying to temp while trying for my son and relied on OPKs which was recommended by my fertility specialist. So I would say a LP of 8-10 days?

 

[Naaxi]

And is it just me or does your chart look triphastic maybe? Could be my tired brain I guess. Oh!!! So my tummy itches. Taking that as a good sign.