Aw I’m sorry u didn’t get a girl but the fact he already looks like the others sounds absolutely lovely.i tend to think people with the strongest opinions are always those that get offended the quickest when u speak up,normally because they aren’t used to having someone actually say what they are thinking back out of politeness,ur sister in law sounds exactly like this so next time she says anything,turn to ur husband and say “yes this is all ur fault,giving me 5 wonderful babies with a loving father,how dare u” see what she comes back with xx