8 days late, SO many BFN's, no sign of AF :( HELP?!?!

[mrsjk]

Went to the doctor today, I basically thought he would tell me that I'm crazy and I just need to wait for AF. INSTEAD what he said to me was that urine tests aren't definitive. He told me his own wife had 3 pregnancies and she never had a positive urine test OR a positive blood test and the only way that she found out she was pregnant was by having an ultrasound! SOO basically - instead of making me think I'm an insane maniac, he made me think I'm not crazy at all. Which is sort of AWFUL because it's giving me hope and what if I shouldn't be hopeful?

Anyway, he took my blood and gave me a requisition for an ultrasound. Should have the results by Friday! PLEASE keep your fingers crossed for a BFP!!

 

[Sct133]

Went to the doctor today, I basically thought he would tell me that I'm crazy and I just need to wait for AF. INSTEAD what he said to me was that urine tests aren't definitive. He told me his own wife had 3 pregnancies and she never had a positive urine test OR a positive blood test and the only way that she found out she was pregnant was by having an ultrasound! SOO basically - instead of making me think I'm an insane maniac, he made me think I'm not crazy at all. Which is sort of AWFUL because it's giving me hope and what if I shouldn't be hopeful?

Anyway, he took my blood and gave me a requisition for an ultrasound. Should have the results by Friday! PLEASE keep your fingers crossed for a BFP!!

Good luck lady!!! Baby dust your way!!!

 

[mrsjk]

Update: 12 days late, CD42

Had blood work done yesterday, took another HPT this morning and thought I saw a very very faint second line. I took a picture but I'm not sure how to attach it. Here's hoping!!!!

I called the doctors and they said my results are in but they wouldn't tell me over the phone so I'm going there after work today!

PRAYING!

 

[Sct133]

Update: 12 days late, CD42

Had blood work done yesterday, took another HPT this morning and thought I saw a very very faint second line. I took a picture but I'm not sure how to attach it. Here's hoping!!!!

I called the doctors and they said my results are in but they wouldn't tell me over the phone so I'm going there after work today!

PRAYING!

Good luck lady let me know!

 

[LondonBean]

I want to know so I am saying hi! Good luck!

 

[mrsjk]

Update: sorry for the delay ladies!

13 days late, CD43.

Okay, ladies, I'm officially losing my mind. Here's what happened yesterday, I went to see the doctor and the blood test was negative! I was kind of shocked, but more than me - the doctor seemed shocked! So then we kind of went through a timeline of when I was taking the OPKs and when we BD'd etc. The doctor seems to think that my cramps last week were implantation cramps and that I could have implanted on the 12th or 13th, so it wouldn't have shown in the blood on the 15th.

Waiting till the 20th to go back and do another blood test.

I AM GOING CRAZY!!!!!!!

 

[Sct133]

Update: sorry for the delay ladies!

13 days late, CD43.

Okay, ladies, I'm officially losing my mind. Here's what happened yesterday, I went to see the doctor and the blood test was negative! I was kind of shocked, but more than me - the doctor seemed shocked! So then we kind of went through a timeline of when I was taking the OPKs and when we BD'd etc. The doctor seems to think that my cramps last week were implantation cramps and that I could have implanted on the 12th or 13th, so it wouldn't have shown in the blood on the 15th.

Waiting till the 20th to go back and do another blood test.

I AM GOING CRAZY!!!!!!!

Oh wow I am sorry to hear that it's not a definite answer yet, I would be freaking out too! But stay positive! I'm
Wishing you all the luck, let me know if you find anything else out. The 20th is not that far!!

 

[mrsjk]

Thanks!! It's so hard, especially because (not sure if I mentioned this previously) but hubby is away on a work conference till tomorrow so he has NO IDEA what any of this has been going on. So I'm literally by myself, going nuts.

I'm really hoping this month is it, I know you've also been trying since May - I feel like it's our time now!! People around me are getting pregnant so quickly and easily - I teach a teen mom class so I'm around girls that are pregnant all the time without even trying! It's frustrating Good luck to us all this month!!!

 

[SweetPea3200]

OMG I haven't been on at all but I just saw all this stuff! I would be going insane if I was you! Holy geez. Well I'm super glad that there's still hope I've heard lots of weird stories about not getting BFPs when pregnant too. It's the not knowing that drives you crazy hey?! Well keep us updated, I really hope it's your month!

 

[mrsjk]

Ladies, I'm going NUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

16 days late, CD46.

NOTHING HAPPENING.

 

[apple_20]

That's so frustrating. Did they do repeat tests?

My fingers are crossed for you

 

[SweetPea3200]

Urgh that's so annoying!! Why can't our bodies just do exactly what they are supposed to? LOL. Any further tests or updates?? I'm crossing my fingers for you. My body is pretty much the opposite. I've had a super weird light AF on and off for weeks now. Thankfully I just had a week without it but it seems to have started again today. I just want it to turn into a normal AF so that I know what's going on! So frustrating. Hope you get good news soon

 

[mrsjk]

No repeat blood work, doc wants me to go for an ultrasound on the 27th.

The wait continues.... 17 days late, CD47

 

[SweetPea3200]

Wow that's so late! Hopefully they'll figure out what's going on the 27th! At least it's only six days away now. I'm sure that seems like forever to you though!

 

[imphope]

If you don't mind mrsjk I will wait with you. I'm in a similar place. A few days late, af symptoms (kind of, but not my usual ones) and BfN hpts. I was regular on BCP for years and regular when I came off them for the last 5 months. This is my first cycle ttc and I am confused. Here's hoping both of us get happy results. Your post about just wanting to know either way really resonates with me. If is not a pregnancy, I just want to start my new cycle! I feel crazy.

 

[BumpySomeday]

It's maddening isn't it... mine was 3 weeks late for no reason a few months ago but unlike your doctor, mine insisted the pee test was more than accurate with AF being 2 weeks late & she came a week later But I had seen so many forums where people said they couldn't get a positive read for several weeks so it definitely is possible!

Maybe you did O later on and you got pregnant from that! I've heard that has happened to lots of people too Are you still testing at home until then? I am pretty sure that I couldn't wait 6 more days!!!

 

[mrsjk]

Definitely still testing at home! LOL, there's no way I can last without it!!

This morning - BFN.

 

[mrsjk]

If you don't mind mrsjk I will wait with you. I'm in a similar place. A few days late, af symptoms (kind of, but not my usual ones) and BfN hpts. I was regular on BCP for years and regular when I came off them for the last 5 months. This is my first cycle ttc and I am confused. Here's hoping both of us get happy results. Your post about just wanting to know either way really resonates with me. If is not a pregnancy, I just want to start my new cycle! I feel crazy.

imphope - any news on your end?!

 

[KL50]

Hi Ladies! Wow, it is super frustrating. I am in a similar situation.
I posted a new thread about it. To see if it is normal! haha
i had our first baby in Feb (last year) and haven't had my period for somewhere between 40-50 days. Kinda wonky my cycle and all after giving birth.
I was just like this in the beginning from 8 days late (trying to give benefit of the doubt since I was not super regular). but it is completely nerve racking. I have calmed down a bit, telling myself to just let it be and I will have an answer soon.. and 40 days later, nothing! haha
I am trying to put it in perspective that my body may be readjusting after giving birth but very tempted to call the doctor to see if this can be typical.
Keep us posted! Hopefully the weekend will fly by for you!

 

[imphope]

mrsjk: no nothing. I think I am about 4-5 days late. It is so weird because my cycles have been so regular until now. I wonder if it is just a coincidence that my first irregular cycle coincides with our first time ttc? I have no clue. Maybe it is only because my DH and I have had quite a stressful month ( on top of ttc) and my body is just off? I have two BFN's so far. Come on baby!