Ladies I need ur advice

today I should be happy but I'm kinda sad. Here's how it went today...its been raining all day and our family likes to go disneyland and enjoy this weather with some lattes. Knowing that caffeine isn't a good thing to have as soon as I got home I had to feed my poas addiction and got what looked like a bfp and went into a happy shock but it seemed like hubby wasn't excited. He started saying stuff like maybe this isn't a good idea cuz it might put a financial strain on us (nevermind that I created a budget to make sure we could do this) and that he didn't think it would happen (we've been trying since last july). I would think those concerns should be addressed before we try. Sigh. Is this normal behavior? Will he snap out of it?