9 days post trigger and faint positives?

[Sophie2015]

Mom- def get off the Clomid. It usually thins the lining and this worsens each month you take it. So any egg that might have been fertilized wouldn't implant. Femara is taken just like Clomid but with less of those nasty hot flashes. It typically only produces one good follicle/egg so not much chance of multiples. Call your Dr now cause you'll need to start it on CD3. And when you go for your pre IUI ultrasound ask them what the thickness of your lining is. Anything over 7-8 is good.
I'm a believer in Femara. I got preg the first cycle on it. As did my friend who has PCOS and had not ovulated in years.
Please keep me posted. All of you. It's so nice to have ppl to talk to.
JLM- are you out this month for good?

 

[JLM73]

Sophie I'm15 dpo now, af late by 1-2 days
Just trying to relax, steady BFNs am and pm so far

 

[momwannabe81]

Well af showed up but we won't be able to do anything this cycle cause my mother can't pay for it. Sadly sperm from the sperm bank is 945 and that's what we can't buy. When we do do it I will ask for that but clomid has never affected my lining as it always looks good on the u/s and my af pain also confirms it. Idk what else to do.

 

[JLM73]

Mom are you using the same donor each time? Perhaps try another. I read something long ago about a couple ttc for a long time and it had something to do with her body attacking his sperm, but not the prev father of her children- was a test they took to figure it out, but can't find the article now...
I think they ended up doing an IVF type deal (fert outside body) and made it work, but perhaps you have that issue with that particular donor??

 

[Sophie2015]

Mom- I'm so sorry. I know how awful it is when the witch shows. JLM has a good point. You could have antibodies against a particular donor. It's such a shame that people who want children the most have to shell out so much money to get them here sometimes.
Mom please keep in touch. I will be praying for you.

 

[momwannabe81]

ty for the support, i ended up begging my father who reluctantly agreed to help but i wont be able to ask again so i did switch to fermara and hopefully it does the trick.
JLM are u going to get bw done to see if u r pregnant, i've read of some women not getting their bfp until weeks later

 

[JLM73]

Can't get in as I have to get a new doc, or already BE preg for my regular doc to take my insur lol...so I'm hoping to have a pretty pos test when I go in to schedule

 

[Sophie2015]

mom- I hope the Femara works for you!!!! Baby dust sent your way!

JLM- keep us posted. How late are you now?

 

[JLM73]

Hi sorry just saw this-
I'm 18dpo, 5 days late Same looking test this am, faint purple evap type line, but after the 10 mins for sure.
Then had a small amt spotting this a.m.
Got very bummed out, but figured I can't do anything different than I have been, so I'm good mentally actually.
Just trying to stay hydrated and relax.
Thx for askin Sophie!

 

[momwannabe81]

Well i'm hoping that its a bfp for u too. Spotting can be normal during pregnancy. Have u thought about going to the health department for a test? It should be free

 

[Sophie2015]

JLM- are you usually this late?

Mom- did you start your Femara today?

 

[momwannabe81]

I started yesterday cycle day 3

 

[Sophie2015]

I started yesterday cycle day 3

I'm soooo hopeful for you this cycle!!

 

[JLM73]

Oh nooo Sophie
I've never been late more than 24 hrs.
Seeming like a chemical, but still hoping for a succesful bfp
so just waiting

 

[momwannabe81]

my fingers are crossed for a bfp, ty sophie i'm hoping the saying 3rd time is the charm applies to me lol

 

[Sophie2015]

my fingers are crossed for a bfp, ty sophie i'm hoping the saying 3rd time is the charm applies to me lol

It applied to me!!! It was my 3rd IUI and my 1st on Femara.

 

[Sophie2015]

JLM- anything new?
Mom- you doing ok on the Femara?

 

[JLM73]

I got full out AF as of this morning, went from light this am, to heavy bleeding with lots of clots and cramps by eve, so I'm thinking last cycle was a loss sigh
I usually have 5 days of light, med, med, light, spot and no real cramps.
I'm not amused, but moving forward and just hoping I O on time which would be around Aug 18th.
How are you ladies today?

 

[Sophie2015]

JLM- I'm sorry to hear that. But you're right, all you can do is look forward.

 

[Breeaa]

I got full out AF as of this morning, went from light this am, to heavy bleeding with lots of clots and cramps by eve, so I'm thinking last cycle was a loss sigh
I usually have 5 days of light, med, med, light, spot and no real cramps.
I'm not amused, but moving forward and just hoping I O on time which would be around Aug 18th.
How are you ladies today?

Sorry to hear that. I hope this next cycle is the one for you!!