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surprisebaby
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I wondered if this has happened to anyone or does anyone have any thoughts about the situation.
I found out I was pregnant (unplanned) in the middle of August and because my boyfriend lives elsewhere during uni breaks I called him. He just didn't answer the phone so although not ideal I texted him the news that I am pregnant. I texted quite a few times and emailed him, but have not heard any thing from him at all. This was 6 weeks ago. He should be back here now at Uni, but still no contact. I emailed him on Friday and so he might reply this week. I don't know.
I just find it so frustrating not knowing his decisions. Does he want to be involved in the baby's life?, Is he just in shock just now and will come round?, Has he dumped me?
Its so horrible him pretending I don't exist.
I think I could accept whatever he wanted to do, but for him to not have a conversation with me about it. I just find that really hard.
The way I see it just now is that I am single and doing it alone, but I just want him to talk to me.
It is getting to the stage where I think I will contact his parents as I know their business address. Is that a bad idea?
Has anyone else experience this running away or ignoring?
I found out I was pregnant (unplanned) in the middle of August and because my boyfriend lives elsewhere during uni breaks I called him. He just didn't answer the phone so although not ideal I texted him the news that I am pregnant. I texted quite a few times and emailed him, but have not heard any thing from him at all. This was 6 weeks ago. He should be back here now at Uni, but still no contact. I emailed him on Friday and so he might reply this week. I don't know.
I just find it so frustrating not knowing his decisions. Does he want to be involved in the baby's life?, Is he just in shock just now and will come round?, Has he dumped me?
Its so horrible him pretending I don't exist.
I think I could accept whatever he wanted to do, but for him to not have a conversation with me about it. I just find that really hard.
The way I see it just now is that I am single and doing it alone, but I just want him to talk to me.
It is getting to the stage where I think I will contact his parents as I know their business address. Is that a bad idea?
Has anyone else experience this running away or ignoring?