A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[justwaiting]

Hi ladies,
Scan went really well baby is meauring 6.5wks and 8.5mm with a hb of 134. tHe scan only lasted mere minutes and I had to ask the lady measurements and hb coz she was so friggin rude (seriously if u have no compassion don't do the job) anyway owphie is doing really well, the scan was abdo and we saw a good pic of owphie. my hcg is 45000 and prog is 75, I'm now on only 1 pessarie a day. Thinking this might be a keeper!

I hope everyone is doing ok, 4 sleeps to christmas hopefully a good start to the new year for us all!

 

[RaspberryMini]

Pleased to see you having a positive attitude Lady, I'm sure we're all thinking about you and hoping for the best

Hope everyone else is good and looking forward to Christmas. NSN - how are things with you? Still ok I hope

In other news, we have made 11w! A huge milestone as we've never been here before just hoping things are still as good at the scan.

 

[NewToAllThis]

Congrats JW - that's fantastic
Its such a shame when the scan people are so bloody rude, it totally spoils the experience and especially for someone like us who have had such negative experiences in the past
Did you get a pic?

Lexi - I was glad to be able to be there for my work colleague - I didn't really know her that well before but now we are good friends. Its nice that you could help her to deal with her loss. How are you doing hun?

Lady - thinking of you lots. Really hope you are managing to stay positive. As everyone has said, baby could be fine and you have to cling on to that hope. When do you get your results. Sending you a big hug xx

Tweak - you could be our first 2012 BFP - keeping everything crossed for you. I definitely think having a relaxed attitude helps.

RM - Hope than your scan on 28th gives you some amazing Christmas & New Year news. Yay for 11 weeks

NSN - Hope you are doing well hun.

AFM - If I actually O'd this month when I had the pains and +OPK, I will be roughly 9/10 dpo today. Not expecting a BFP this month and I'm fine with it. Need to get Milo fully house-trained and maybe start training him a bit as he tends to be a bit wild at times and pleases himself. He doesn't respond to 'No' or any other negative comments yet - just thinks its part of the game
He seems to have learnt that he doesn't wee inside but still struggling with the poo's - doesn't seem to be able to hold it for long. When he's got to go, he's got to go so we have to get him outside quick. So that means that I can't really take my eyes off him for long which is very draining - expecially since I am full of cold and feeling rough.
DH is on early shift so leaves at 5am, I have been getting up with him to spend a couple of hours with Milo before I go to work, so very tired lately
Promise to upload some pics soon - been offline for a while so need to get sorted.

Hi to everyone else

 

[Neversaynever]

Lady...such a positive attitude and I hope you get the results today

NTAT...loving the Milo stories good to see you in a good place too. Loved the story and good for you

Lexi...I'm ok...all these things are sent to try us you've been lovely to your friend too..I know it makes it a bit easier when you can talk to someone that's been in the same situation

RM...yay for your new milestone hoping the scan gives you more reassurance that this is your forever baby

Tweak...hoping you caught that eggy and you get the first 2012 BFP with the rest following closely behind

Patiently...how're you doing hun? Big

JW...brilliant scan news..how is hubby??

AJ...you ok?

Everyone else hope all is ok

AFM...had cramping all day yesterday and small amount of brown discharge. I'm hoping my little Oopsie is still growing in there but it's all a waiting game and as usual we can't do jack shit about it whatever!

XxX

 

[Ladyfog]

Hi everyone, we got the main test results yesterday afternoon (how about that for service!) and everything's come back normal! Baby has the right number of chromosomes so that rules out Downs, Turners, Edwards so all the biggies.

They're cultivating cells now for further tests, but this is 'dotting the i's and crossing the t's' according to the specialist midwife. It'll spot any smaller irregularities that may be causing the fluid build up.

Next step for us is another scan in 4 weeks time to check for heart defects so just got to hope we make it that far. We quite possibility have a poorly baby so the MC risk is high, but I've been on tenterhooks for the last 12 weeks so another 4 won't hurt. Maternal instinct has really kicked in now and I just want this baby to make it. There's a high risk of heart probs but hoping we can overcome those if it comes to that - chromosomes you can do nothing about, hearts we can fix.

JW - so glad your scan went well! But sorry the sonographer was crap - you'd think they would understand how important these moments are to a pregnant woman!

NSN - cramping is normal and brown blood is old so please don't worry. I have all my fingers and toes crossed for you

NTAT - sounds Like Milo is giving you a taste of what it would be like to have a toddler in the house! Babies will seem a breeze now

Tweak - good luck and great attitude. Hoping you get that NY baby.
Lexi - where are you in your cycle hun? sorry I've lost track.

Anyone waiting for that BFP - eat lots of pate and brie and stilton for me this Christmas!!

 

[Neversaynever]

Lady...I'm sat at the docs I am so frigging happy for you

Hoping beyond hope that your baby is ok, continues to grow and IF there are issues, they are easily fixed

XxX

 

[NewToAllThis]

Lady - that's the best news you could have hoped for. So pleased for you
And as you say, heart problems can be sorted, chromosomes cannot, but really hoping that you don't have to cross that bridge. Your positive news has made my day.
Can't tell you how pleased and relieved I am for you

NSN - Really hoping Oopsie is just settling in and making his home for the next 8 months. Stay positive hun. Keeping my fingers and toes crossed.
And theres plenty of funny Milo stories I can bore you with! He's crazy!!

 

[patiently]

So happy or you JW!!! really think you have a sticky one and you really give me so much hope...have a wonderful xmas too hun!!

RM happy 11 weeks glad you have reached your milestone and wishing you a happy pregnant xmas!

NTAT you are an amazing friend she is so lucky to have someone like you really wish everyone could take a leaf from your book! Hope you get your bfp still this xmas when will you be testing?

Lady I am happy that you have a positive attitude and hope all is well...happy to hear your results came back normal too...great news!! GL for your scan in 4 weeks!!

Tweak hope you caught the egg and FC you will get your bfp!!

NSN brown blood is old blood so all could be well still hope you're ok hun try to be positive ok...things will be ok!!

afm went to the drs yesterday and he told me that if AF arrives to take clomid for 6 days instead of 5...checked on the net and its not stated that you should ever take it for 6 days so still going to take it for 5...my dr is really confused at the best of times so..? AF hasnt arrived yet and tbh i dont feel like shes coming...so i guess i didnt ovulate though my bbs are a bit tender...anyway i have received my basal themometer today so does anyone have any guidance or advice on when and how i should use it i have no idea how it works?

Its my OH bday today so taking him to get some games for his xbox as he's a huge fan and he just spent almost a grand on a 3d tv...then will get a cake and some drink i think...i dont think im pg and took a drs pg test yesterday which also was a bfn so think its safe to say i can drink...good luck all those testing shortly and enjoy your wednesday ladies x

 

[Tweak0605]

Lady - I'm so happy to hear the news!! That's awesome! Praying everything still goes well with LO!

JW - Glad your scan went well!!

Patiently - I've been temping for 3 months. I use Fertility Friend as it's way easy for me to input my temps every morning. I take my temp every morning at 5 a.m. It's very important to take it at the same time every day, after 3 hours of restful sleep. I know I don't get very restful sleep, so I just take it at 5 a.m. regardless of my sleep. The BBT I have keeps my temp, so I just take it at 5 a.m., then turn it off and go back to sleep till the alarm goes off. When I wake up, my temp is saved in, so I can just input it. I thought it would take some time to get used to, but it's second nature now. I hear the alarm, put the BBT in my mouth, when it beeps I take it out and on the nightstand and fall right back asleep. Let me know if you have any other questions and I'll try to help!


AFM - No CH's yet, but we'll just keep BDing every other day. My temps have been slightly rised the past few days, so I'm hoping I already OV'd!

 

[Ladyfog]

Thanks ladies

NSN - I really hope things are OK. How did it go today? Still crampy and blood still brown? Remember RM had a lot of bleeding and here she is feeling as sick as a dog and 11 weeks along. I am thinking about you and hope for the best with Oopsie I really do.

Patiently, I've never temped so not I'm not much use I'm afraid. Hope you've enjoyed today.

Right, I'm off now - I'm absolutely knackered today. Think all the stress of the stress of the last few days has caught up with me - bet I'll be in bed by 8pm!

 

[lexi374]

Patiently its my dh birthday today too!

I also use fertility friend to temp, i take my temp at 6.30am or as near as poss. Dont worry about individual temps, you should just be able to look back at the end of the month and see a pattern. The temps before ov should be lower than the temps after ov. Mine are usually 36.0- 36.3ish before ov, and 36.4-36.7 after ov, everyone is different though. Do 1 month then look back and try and see what is normal for you, good luck! x

Lady im soooo happy for you thats great news!

JW yay for great scan!!!

NTAT wheres the piccies of milo, i wanna see him! x

Nsn how are things now? Hoping everything has settled down

RM yay 11 weeks!

Tweak hi

AFM DH bday today, not doing much hopefully we are both finishing work early tom, so maybe take him out for lunch then, maybe let him get lucky
BD week next week, prob ov around new years eve give or take a day x

 

[RaspberryMini]

Great news Lady - I'm really pleased for you

We're off to family tomorrow for Christmas so I may not be around much so Merry Christmas everyone! Hope you all have a great time xx

 

[FloridaGirl21]

ladies! 2nd cycle on Clomid & on Progesterone suppositories.. I'm 8DPO & think I may have a very very faint BFP!

https://i1110.photobucket.com/albums/h444/cote2011/IMAG1192.jpg

inverted pic:

https://www.converthub.com/invert-c...fbf9882325d7d1325746650/imag1187-inverted.jpg

 

[lexi374]

congratulations florida, h & h 9 months to you! x

 

[justwaiting]

congrats florida, it's faint but I can see it!

Lady - that is fantastic news, You must be so relieved and can now enjoy your xmas. I know it's not all clear for another 4 wks but it's fantastic news for now.

afm - I'm nausea's unless I'm asleep, tried to make myself vomit last night as I just wanted some relief, didn't quite work how I'd hoped. Salty foods are helping, I just ate a teaspoon of vegemite (in aus that is a salty brown spread for toast) it did help. I'm so happy to be feeling so sick.
We also are telling the inlaws and siblings today, I'm horrible at my own secrets and people keep guessing, since everything is going nicely, numbers, scans etc we decided time to be excited and hopeful and tell our close family. The wider world will wait until feb but I feel so good about Owphie that I have to share him/her with the our nearest and dearest. Dh agreed, I think after the scan and seeing the hb he is a little more confident about this one.

Good luck to everyone. Merry Christmas

 

[FloridaGirl21]

this was my test from tonight, testing again in the morning


https://i1110.photobucket.com/albums/h444/cote2011/IMAG1197.jpg

https://i1110.photobucket.com/albums/h444/cote2011/IMAG1196.jpg

 

[Applejack1]

Fingers crossed for you Flordia Girl! Good news lady.....thinking of you!!! HI to everyone else!

AFM - in the tww period. Shitty it happens over Christmas break. I try really hard not to symptom spot but crazy dreams over and over last night. Kept DH up all night every half hour on the hour. Also diarrhea off and on the last few days which was a sign the other two times. Anyone else get this early on. Not getting any hopes up though as I think 2011 is out for us. Been a BAD year.

Clomid in Januray. Can't help but hope and wonder what that will bring. Went over to my brother's the other night for dinner. They were married in August and are now 5 months pregnant. I had a major melt down before I went and so did not want to go. Glad I got the cry over with before hand because I did eventually get out of bed but they had their Ultra Sound Picture framed and passed it around. Thinking if I had not have cryed first probably would have had melt down there. RRRRRRRRRRRRRR does the jealously thing ever end????? Why is everyone I know having babies? Facebook is BADDDDDDDD!!!!!! xo

PS. How do I explain my fate at the bottom of my post like everyone else so I don't have to always say "have had two miscarriages, ovarian cancer and a hubby with type one diabetes"????? That all sounds so sad!!!! Thank goodness for all of you!!! xo

 

[Applejack1]

Tried to change some of my settings but its not working.............have to post something as it won't let me delete sooooo.....

Merry Christmas everyone!!! XO

 

[justwaiting]

apple it should just be changing your signature in usercp.
I hope the tww goes quickly and painlessly for you, you never know 2011 may have a happy ending for you!

 

[Applejack1]

Ok how about this????? Does this work????? Test!!!