A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[wookie130]

Oh, Patiently, I'm so sorry you're going through this awful experience. I pray it's not an ectopic, although there are definite signs that indicate it very well may be ectopic. And I've stated my opinion of your family's behavior...definitely distance yourself from that crap. Clearly they don't get it, whatsoever.

Please hang in there. You have every reason in this Earth to move forward, although I realize how devastated you are at the moment. Sending a ton of thoughts and prayers.

Sooperhans, if you wake up many times during the night, do your first natural temp, rather than the same time each morning.

 

[pink80]

Patiently - I'm so sorry, I don't have any experience of ectopic, I'm hoping that ou get good news, if it's not to be we'll all be here for you xxx

 

[Sooperhans]

Thank you for your reply sooperhans. I am spotting brown blood and when they done the ultrasound there was blood separating the endiometrium lining (sorry cant spell it right lol) Thats where they believe the blood is coming from. In about 15% or ectopics develop like normal pregnancies though so im not too excited. I am so nervous and drained. Have you ever had an ectopic?

No worries Patiently, if there's any info I can give then I will try No I haven't, but on mc2 they thought it might be at first. But my pain was all on the left side, not a bit all over at times like you. And my hcg never got above 170 (it was early ) so I wonder with your higher hcg what is going on, as it's not staying on one level like they said to me that ectopics do. But I don't know any more than that and I'm not sure about the lining. Let us know what they say xx

 

[BeachChica]

Patiently - I am so sorry you are going through all of this but I am really praying for you that it's not an ectopic and just an early pregnancy that they can't see in your uterus yet. I have everything crossed for you girl, hang in there!!

Sooper - If you are tracking your temps on Fertility Friend, go to your fertility dashboard. Then at the top, select sharing. You can just then select "get code" or "graphical tickers". Once you've created your ticker you can just select the code and paste in your profile signature here. Let me know if you have any questions.

 

[Sooperhans]

Great thanks Beach, I will follow your instructions when I'm logged on! For now, we are getting ready to go up to Liverpool, so excited!! Xx

 

[Sooperhans]

Ps how are you?

 

[lexi374]

Hi ladies have been checking in in dribs and drabs as still cannot connect at home, if anyone 1 has any ideas please let me know, ive emailed sky to ask them as its obviously our connection.

Firstly patiently omg hun big ive been thinking of you lots, i hope this will not turn out to be ectopic you have been through so much. Im glad your oh is being so supportive its a shame i cannot say that about your family....
people will never understand unless they have been through it but they could at least show some empathy.

Soop i wake up loads of times too, my alarm is set for 6.30am if i wake up an hour or so before then i will temp then, if i woke up say at half 4 then ill go back to sleep and temp a bit later.

Inoue have you tested yet?

Cant rem who asked sorry but have coped ok with my colleague telling me she was pregnant, i think only because i knew it was coming otherwise i would have had a meltdown, but id already done this the week before with dh.
She has a scan in a couple of weeks.

My other friend at work who is 14 weeks had her scan and nt test all looked ok nt was less than 2mm, risk i in 3800, shes 34. But midwife has called and said bloods have shown elevated hcg levels. Does anyone know much about this?? They said she will need extra scans to check growth as could be small or could be other problems. The only thing i could find was link with downs, you would usually have had bad nt result with elevated hcg.

AFM 8dpo no symptoms and no idea really will prob poas mon or tues.

Hope everybody is ok good luck to those due to test and to those who need it xx

 

[Inoue]

^^ I hope the next few days goes quick for you ~ only few more days till you can test!

I did an IC this morning in which I thought I saw a pinkish line but im not to sure... I have a thread open in the pregnancy test area labelled '10dpo (please view)'. Maybe you could have a look if possible x

 

[lexi374]

I think i see something on 3rd picture but those tests are crap, when i got positive last time i had a def line on asda and frer but could barely see anything on ic, could you get a frer and test tom with fmu? Good luck xx

 

[pink80]

Inoue I see something - I would test with a FRER tomorrow morning - GOOD LUCK xx

 

[Inoue]

I havent got any FR . I have a clearblue digital but there not that responsive before 14dpo. May see if superdrug or boots have any FR on offer. I usually have a good stash of every type of preg test in my draw! Lol. Im having to do this all stealthily as I don't want my DH to find out just yet ~ oh the joys!! .

Hope everyone's having a nice weekend! x

 

[lexi374]

Im not sure if the offers on but superdrug were doing buy 1 get 1 free on frer twin packs. No digis are no good early on x

 

[patiently]

Inoue i can see something on the third one!! FXed hope this is the start of your bfp!!!

My bbs are extremely sore i cant even bare to touch them. When i take off my bra its even worst! so sore near my armpits. If this were a normal pregnancy i would be so happy as it really does show elevated progesterone levels i know they are at 73 now. Really sad that in the beginning i was begging for any symptoms just to give me reassurance of a normal healthy pregnancy and now i have the symptoms but no reassurance. Next time i wont be looking so closely into symptoms because they can be so misleading.

 

[wookie130]

Patiently, it really may be too soon to tell...it's promising to some degree that your hcg is dtill rising. It very well may be too soon to see if there's anything in the uterus...

Inoue, I'm off to check your IC, babe! BRB!

 

[wookie130]

Okay, I peeked at it Inoue...I think I may see a line, but I would definitely retest over the next 2 or 3 mornings. Best of luck!!!

 

[lemondrops]

So when I got pregnant back over the summer, my best friend told me she was pregnant one week before I got my bfp. She was 6 weeks ahead of me and when I had my miscarriage at 11 weeks it was really tough on our friendship. Until that point, everything had been about us being pregnant and how awesome it would be to have the babies together.

She had her baby today and I got to go to the hospital and man, I didn't think it would be as hard as it was. It was the first brand new baby i've let myself around since losing my two and even though I am so happy for her, I have felt so depressed since I left the hospital. I can still smell the baby on me and I know that if things hadn't happened the way they did, I would be just a few weeks from being able to hold my own. Actually, in reality I'd probably be closer than that since I was pregnant with twins and they don't go full term. Ugh, I just needed to vent.

On the upside, I came home to get a positive OPK and pulled my husband into bed at 5pm, not wanting to waste any time.

 

[Inoue]

Ive updated my '10DPO (please view)' with pee sticks from this morning. Still not to sure but i think its getting a tad darker in RL (FX'd)!!

 

[pink80]

Inoue I would say that it positive and if you take a FRER you would get a nice line

I'm 10 dpo today and have been testing with ICs for a few days thinking I might be able to see something - even more so this morning so took a FRER and a definite bfp - you can compare yours to mine, pics in my journal, and yours is much clearer

 

[lexi374]

Big congrats to inoue and pink!!!! I see lines for both of you!! Maybe this thread is gonna start getting lucky again.

Did either of you have much in the way of symptoms this month?

Lemon im sorry hun, its so tough that everyone around us seems to be moving forward and getting their babies and we are still stuck on square 1, big

 

[pink80]

Thanks Lexi - not really, I've had a cold since 6/7dpo and some bloating and very light cramping xx