A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Inoue]

Thankyou!! Cant believe were starting this rollercoater again. Congrats to you pink ~ what emotions are you feeling? Have you told your OH yet? Im trying to keep quiet untill tomorrow as its our 2 year wedding anniversary .

As for symptoms... pretty much none. No different from any other month. Felt abit more tired and i seem to get an increase in saliva. Few cramps here and there but all good. Just hope AF stays away now to give chance for my eggy to properly settle in (lost other two from bleeding).

I hope this thread is lucky for all of you!!

 

[pink80]

Thanks Hun - congrats to you too

My head is all over the place really, I'm so terrified. Haven't ha the chance to tell him yet, he went out early this morning an I'm jot sure how to tell him - he's going to be just was worried as me! Here we go again....

Happy mothers day to all you lovely ladies xxx

 

[Inoue]

Ditto. I dont expect him to wave his arms around in excitement ~ he will probably have a look of dread on his face. Im actually feeling quite happy to keep it to myself for a while longer, but i know thats not fair .

I think once next week goes by - reality will set in. I have scans at 8/10/12 weeks to check little one due to the past so not looking forward to them nerve-racking dates.

Best of luck with everything, including telling OH


How is everyone elce doing?? xx

 

[Ladyfog]

Lemondrops, my heart goes out to you - you did a wonderful thing visiting your friend, I'm sure she really appreciated it. You will have your baby one day soon and when it happens, trust me when I say it will feel like the right time.

Congrats Pink and Inoue! I hope those lines keep getting darker!!

NTAT, have you decided which hospital to go for?

Hope everyone else is having a good Sunday. Hopefully next year we will all be mummys or mummys to be

 

[Loopyla]

Hey feeling a bit down today i guess this is the right forum to be in, still ttc number 1 after more than 1 loss... thought id be ok about it by now had my first mc 6 months ago and my second end of january which my mother in law kindly told me i was allowed a day to get over it. had blood tests because i have irregular periods aswell and theres nothing wrong with me just bad luck. I dont get it everyone else seems to have babies at the drop of a hat, Iv waited 7 1/2 years for my husband to be ready. Now i just keep losing them.fed up i hate feeling so negative im not usually like this How do i stop feeling like this?

 

[Neversaynever]

Nsn - sounds like you are being really strong and focusing on the positive, hope yesterday's anniversary wasn't too tough for you. My first DD will be on the 31st July, which was also my nan's birthday, who has now passed. So I'll be really sad but also trying to think about her. How are you feeling in your pregnancy?

Thanks hun..it has taken a while to feel like this might be it and it still only happens fleetingly. Bakc to feeling sick all day but NOT complaining

Hey feeling a bit down today i guess this is the right forum to be in, still ttc number 1 after more than 1 loss... thought id be ok about it by now had my first mc 6 months ago and my second end of january which my mother in law kindly told me i was allowed a day to get over it. had blood tests because i have irregular periods aswell and theres nothing wrong with me just bad luck. I dont get it everyone else seems to have babies at the drop of a hat, Iv waited 7 1/2 years for my husband to be ready. Now i just keep losing them.fed up i hate feeling so negative im not usually like this How do i stop feeling like this?

Welcome and I am sorry that you find yourself in here you never get over it hun...you learn to live with it loads of lovey ladies and support in here

Patiently...hope today gave you some answers...I've responded fully in your journal with lots of swear words but for you in here

Inoue and pink... come on sticky for you two and lets see more BFP's in here

Lemon...sending you

Lexi...where are you in your cycle? Start beating sky with a big stick I think

Beach...you ok?

Annemarie...you?

Lady...looking good?

Oh I am so crap I know I have forgtten people sorry

Wookie...come and go as you feel like it...someone is always here

NTAT...any more decisions on which hospital you are going to choose?

to everyone and happy Mothers day...we are all mommys regardless

XxX

 

[Ladyfog]

Hey feeling a bit down today i guess this is the right forum to be in, still ttc number 1 after more than 1 loss... thought id be ok about it by now had my first mc 6 months ago and my second end of january which my mother in law kindly told me i was allowed a day to get over it. had blood tests because i have irregular periods aswell and theres nothing wrong with me just bad luck. I dont get it everyone else seems to have babies at the drop of a hat, Iv waited 7 1/2 years for my husband to be ready. Now i just keep losing them.fed up i hate feeling so negative im not usually like this How do i stop feeling like this?

Welcome and . Sorry for you losses and sorry that MIL is not being supportive. Hope you are getting support from DH. I also had to wait quite a few years for my husband to be ready to start a family and then suffered the frustration of my losses. It was the anger and frustration that I think I found the hardest of all the emotions I weng through. It does get better although it certainly takes longer than a day to get over them!

 

[Loopyla]

Thank you, im lucky my husband is really supportive, I wish he never told his mum tho, I hope it does get easier i hate feeling like this.

 

[BeachChica]

Hi Girls! :wave:
Hope you all had a great weekend. Getting ready for bed but just thought I would pop in and say hello!

Inoue and Pink - Congrats so happy for you girls!!


Loopyla and Lemondrops

 

[Inoue]

Hi ladies! Decided to risk it today and use my digital test and i got "Pregnant 1-2"!! YAY!!


Welcome to the new members on here, were all here for support so dont hold back if you just want to talk to someone

 

[BeachChica]

Inoue - that is so great!!!! Congratulations!!!!
Did you say your first scan is at 8 weeks? Seems like forever doesn't it!!??? What are they planning on doing with your differently this time?

 

[pink80]

Great News Inoue

 

[Inoue]

Thankyou!!

I went to see my GP and told her my concerns about the next time we concieve, mainly about work and no rest. I explained that i keep losing them between 8-12 weeks and the bleeding starts at work so she has come up with a plan that at 8 weeks i have a scan done to check all ok with baby, then i will get signed off work for a month on rest-bite to give the baby a chance to hang on, then when i go back after 13 weeks my days will be reduced accordingly. So i get reassurance scans at 8/10/12 weeks and time off work. I just pray nothing happenes between now and when my note takes effect as my hours havent changed... Just got to tell me employers now!

I after my month off, if im not happy with going back to work then ill probably wont bother ~ it will be difficult financially but im fed up of losing my little babies over a workplace

 

[annmariecrisp]

Congratulations on the BFP's!! Praying for sticky beans for you both!
Patiently...How are you today? Have you had the results back from bloods yesterday?
AFM: I have my first appointment at St Mary's recurrent miscarriage clinic tomorrow and I have also asked to be considered for the PROMISE trial which is to see whether progesterone supplements work in sustaining an otherwise failing pregnancy. I heard about it on here and googled it and it turns out the trial is being done at St Mary's too so I get to talk about that tomorrow and they will see if I qualify for it! Fingers crossed! Weirdly though..they have said that for the next 3 months I am not to ttc as they want to find out what the problem is so that I don't have to suffer another loss and then when I do ttc again and get my BFP they will personally look after me up there from the moment I get a BFP! I didn't know that I shouldnt be ttc though and now I am 6dpo and have actively tried this month! oops!
I hope that the tests aren't too invasive.....I'm a bit nervous and don't really know what to expect? Has anyone been to St Mary's on here?

I have had a lovely weekend away with my DH and I am now just trying to relax a little xxxx hope you are all ok xxxx

 

[patiently]

Hi ladies congratulations to the new bfps that's wonderful and I'm wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months.

Afm been back and forth checking my hcg and for the first time in all my pregnancies they are doubling I also have very high prog. But after a very uncomfortable scan today we can clearly see that the baby is in my left tube. Just our luck right. I have opted for the shot, which means that we cannot actively try for another 6 months. The alternative was to take my tube but if my right one is blocked then future pregnancies do not look likely. I really felt upset when I thought I was mc but this had just taken me by surprise and I'm simply lost for words. I think after updating here I will stop coming to this thread I really do appreciate all of the support you ladies have offered me but I will not be able to try for a while so I need to try and come to terms with this. The most horrible thing is that I have so many symptoms and I really think if this pregnancy was in the right place then we would've had our forever baby. :shrug

 

[annmariecrisp]

Hi ladies congratulations to the new bfps that's wonderful and I'm wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months.

Afm been back and forth checking my hcg and for the first time in all my pregnancies they are doubling I also have very high prog. But after a very uncomfortable scan today we can clearly see that the baby is in my left tube. Just our luck right. I have opted for the shot, which means that we cannot actively try for another 6 months. The alternative was to take my tube but if my right one is blocked then future pregnancies do not look likely. I really felt upset when I thought I was mc but this had just taken me by surprise and I'm simply lost for words. I think after updating here I will stop coming to this thread I really do appreciate all of the support you ladies have offered me but I will not be able to try for a while so I need to try and come to terms with this. The most horrible thing is that I have so many symptoms and I really think if this pregnancy was in the right place then we would've had our forever baby. :shrug

Oh honey, I'm so sorry
I too have got to stop ttc for 3 months because of my testing at the clinic so I will look forward to seeing you a few months after I come back too. I wish you all the best and I hope very soon you get the forever baby you dream of xxx

 

[pink80]

Oh Patiently I'm so sorry this has happened Sending lots of love and hugs xxx

 

[BeachChica]

Oh patiently, I am so sorry. Ugh, if its not one thing it's something else to prevent us from getting our forever babies! How frustrating!!


Ann - I have not been to St. Mary's but I hear its one of the best. I did go through several months of recurring MC testing and most if it was not too invasive, mostly bloodwork. Its so great that they will be monitoring you so closely and I hope you get your forever baby. Good luck!

Inoue - that sounds like a great plan if you can make it work. I lose my typically around that mark too so I will be very interested in your progress and if that works for you I may need to do something similar.

 

[Ladyfog]

Patiently, how cruel this whole situation has been for you. I hope that the shot goes well and that the next 6 months goes easy on you. Use the next few months to do some of the things that you will not be able to do once your forever baby is here - you could visit some amazing places, go on boozy holidays and have evenings out with OH. I suppose what I'm trying to say is that when the dust settles there could be some kind of silver lining. For now, just know I'm thinking of you and sending you lots of .

 

[Sooperhans]

Patiently, I am so sorry to hear your sad news and I hope the procedure goes smoothly for you and as well as it can be. Will miss you on here but hopefully see you again and I hope you both keep well in that time. I hope you don't hassle from your family and take everything they say with a pinch (or bucket) of salt. You are a very strong lady!

Annmarie, let us know how your testing goes and I hope the break from ttc for 3 months flies by for you

Inoue and Pink, great news on your bfps! Fab news. Inoue is your work particularly strenuous or stressful, or is it the travelling to work that hasn't helped you in the past? My first mc happened at work, it was awful and panicky and dh drove miles at god knows what speed to get me. I will be interested to hear how your approach works for you. How did your ohs react to your bfp news? I think mine would be the same, with not jumping up and down but wanting to really.

Afm, we had a lovely w/e up in Liverpool, beautiful city and so good to have a change of scenery. And I've taken fri and mon off, which I'm looking forward to, as have been feeling super run down. Dh is off too, so lay ins and extra bd-ing on the cards, lol xxx