A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[cazi77]

ERPC is booked for Wednesday, this is the earliest they could fit me in. Wish it was on Monday as I want it all over with now.

DH and I are going to Blackpool tomorrow, yay
I'm going to eat candyfloss and act like a child all day

Can't wait. Already booked to go up the tower and to Madame Tussauds.

its good that you have something nice planned tho xx

 

[patiently]

hi ladies ive been away for a while simply because i know im out...now i dont even know if i ovulated...i usually get sore breasts by now but other than the flu im no different. Im fed up i cant do this anymore all the excitement then knowing AF will show, sorry to be a downer just tired of ttc and all the emotions just want my baby, and we shouldnt have to be going through this just feel gutted...i know everyone says its not over yet but i must be about 9/10dpo and dont feel a thing with my other 2 pregnancies i had sore breasts at least...i give up!

 

[Tweak0605]

ERPC is booked for Wednesday, this is the earliest they could fit me in. Wish it was on Monday as I want it all over with now.

DH and I are going to Blackpool tomorrow, yay
I'm going to eat candyfloss and act like a child all day

Can't wait. Already booked to go up the tower and to Madame Tussauds.

I'm sorry you have to go through that But glad you have something nice planned for the weekend.

hi ladies ive been away for a while simply because i know im out...now i dont even know if i ovulated...i usually get sore breasts by now but other than the flu im no different. Im fed up i cant do this anymore all the excitement then knowing AF will show, sorry to be a downer just tired of ttc and all the emotions just want my baby, and we shouldnt have to be going through this just feel gutted...i know everyone says its not over yet but i must be about 9/10dpo and dont feel a thing with my other 2 pregnancies i had sore breasts at least...i give up!

Oh hun, I'm so sorry for you. Please don't give up. Big

 

[SA JennyPenny]

hi ladies ive been away for a while simply because i know im out...now i dont even know if i ovulated...i usually get sore breasts by now but other than the flu im no different. Im fed up i cant do this anymore all the excitement then knowing AF will show, sorry to be a downer just tired of ttc and all the emotions just want my baby, and we shouldnt have to be going through this just feel gutted...i know everyone says its not over yet but i must be about 9/10dpo and dont feel a thing with my other 2 pregnancies i had sore breasts at least...i give up!

I was worried I hadn't seen u on the thread...aww hun...I'm sending an enormous hug and a shoulder for u to cry on...this is all too much for me some days too I think its time for a little break maybe...NTNP maybe...u need to heal ur soul a little...I do think once ur feeling better..ull feel up to anything again..I was honestly like that a couple months ago...so we had a 5 month break and it did wonders!! Revived my poor shattered soul. I'm sending lots of love and patience ur way sweet lady. Be strong k. Xxx

 

[Ladyfog]

Patiently - don't beat yourself up over not being pregnant again yet. I don't want to get your hopes up but with both my pregnancies they were the months I was sure I wasn't and then I was. But if this isn't you're month, it will happen again another month. It feels like a race where you're always behind sometimes, but it's not. If you need a break, take it - one day we'll all look back at this as something that happened, but had a happy ending

NTAL - Well done for the PMA! Hope you enjoy Blackpool, and try to get out between now and Wednesday to enjoy the sunshine anyway. Have a 99 for me!

I know what everyone means about feeling like they should have babies by now. Someone that was due at the ame time as my first now has a baby who is teething - crazy and sad to think that could've/should've been me. Just try to push those thoughts away if they come into my head - we can't go back in time, and even if we did it wouldn't have been any different so all we can do is move forwards.

 

[Neversaynever]

hi ladies ive been away for a while simply because i know im out...now i dont even know if i ovulated...i usually get sore breasts by now but other than the flu im no different. Im fed up i cant do this anymore all the excitement then knowing AF will show, sorry to be a downer just tired of ttc and all the emotions just want my baby, and we shouldnt have to be going through this just feel gutted...i know everyone says its not over yet but i must be about 9/10dpo and dont feel a thing with my other 2 pregnancies i had sore breasts at least...i give up!

First off

Have you tested? Also, did you know that the body supresses the immune system when an egg has been fertilised to stop the body attacking the foreign object? Just hang fire hun, both of my pregnancies I had completely different symptoms...including no sore boobs the last time until 5 weeks

ERPC is booked for Wednesday, this is the earliest they could fit me in. Wish it was on Monday as I want it all over with now.

DH and I are going to Blackpool tomorrow, yay
I'm going to eat candyfloss and act like a child all day

Can't wait. Already booked to go up the tower and to Madame Tussauds.

I'm sorry you have to go through that But glad you have something nice planned for the weekend.

hi ladies ive been away for a while simply because i know im out...now i dont even know if i ovulated...i usually get sore breasts by now but other than the flu im no different. Im fed up i cant do this anymore all the excitement then knowing AF will show, sorry to be a downer just tired of ttc and all the emotions just want my baby, and we shouldnt have to be going through this just feel gutted...i know everyone says its not over yet but i must be about 9/10dpo and dont feel a thing with my other 2 pregnancies i had sore breasts at least...i give up!

Oh hun, I'm so sorry for you. Please don't give up. Big

Tweak...how are YOU?

hi ladies ive been away for a while simply because i know im out...now i dont even know if i ovulated...i usually get sore breasts by now but other than the flu im no different. Im fed up i cant do this anymore all the excitement then knowing AF will show, sorry to be a downer just tired of ttc and all the emotions just want my baby, and we shouldnt have to be going through this just feel gutted...i know everyone says its not over yet but i must be about 9/10dpo and dont feel a thing with my other 2 pregnancies i had sore breasts at least...i give up!

I was worried I hadn't seen u on the thread...aww hun...I'm sending an enormous hug and a shoulder for u to cry on...this is all too much for me some days too I think its time for a little break maybe...NTNP maybe...u need to heal ur soul a little...I do think once ur feeling better..ull feel up to anything again..I was honestly like that a couple months ago...so we had a 5 month break and it did wonders!! Revived my poor shattered soul. I'm sending lots of love and patience ur way sweet lady. Be strong k. Xxx

Patiently - don't beat yourself up over not being pregnant again yet. I don't want to get your hopes up but with both my pregnancies they were the months I was sure I wasn't and then I was. But if this isn't you're month, it will happen again another month. It feels like a race where you're always behind sometimes, but it's not. If you need a break, take it - one day we'll all look back at this as something that happened, but had a happy ending

NTAL - Well done for the PMA! Hope you enjoy Blackpool, and try to get out between now and Wednesday to enjoy the sunshine anyway. Have a 99 for me!

I know what everyone means about feeling like they should have babies by now. Someone that was due at the ame time as my first now has a baby who is teething - crazy and sad to think that could've/should've been me. Just try to push those thoughts away if they come into my head - we can't go back in time, and even if we did it wouldn't have been any different so all we can do is move forwards.[/QUOTE]

Lady...so VERY true we will all get there...I'm sure of it

Sending you big to SAJenny

NTAL...enjoy Blackpool...perfect weather and enjoy being a spoiled for Wednesday too..we are all there with you

How is everyone else? and

AFM...had a few struggles over the last few days but seem to be on the better side of things now thankfully.

All the UK ladies...hope you're all enjoying this much needed heatwave...finally

XxX

ETA...I have no idea how I fooked up that multi quote thing... sorry

 

[CARNAT22]

Hi ladies,

Hope I am not too late to join...

I am 31 and in the past four months we've had a M/C (natural) and just last weekend a chemical pregnancy.

We are desperate to have a viable pregnancy and be blessed with our first child.

OH and I have big families and already have four adorable little nephews betwen us... We'd so love to give our parents another grandchild!

We are actively TTC, I am not the most patient person in the world though.

All in all it's been a difficult few months but there a are a few positives from our horrible experiences so far:
1) I successfully gave up smoking [after 15 years] with pregnancy number one and even though I miscarried I stayed of the fags!
2) I seem to be able to get pregnant quite easily. First pregnancy was only a month after I came of the pill and we were using condoms. 2nd pregancy occured just one full cycle after M/C.

I look forward to the next chapter but I am quite scared.

xxxxxxxxx

 

[LisaL79]

Just wanted to update very quick...
This is another chemical. I started to spot bright fresh blood yesterday and it only seemed to get heavier. I made the decision to stop the progest and just let AF come and she def did later in the day.
I still tested BFP this morning which has me worried that it's going to turn out like my last one.
My last chemical was AWFUL.
It pretty much started exactly the same. My first beta even came back an 8. I stopped progest, AF came. For some reason I decided to test on cd3 and it came back BFP, actually darker than what it was before.
By cd10, my beta had actually increased to 60.
I started to spot and get very bad sharp pains down there and it freaked me out. RE did an u/s and it showed nothing out of the ordinary and after that my tests finally started to get lighter.
It was pretty damn awful and I do not want to go through that again.

 

[TTC1983]

I had my first missed miscarriage in April, i was 10 weeks 6 days but baby measured 7 weeks 6 days. I tried to miscarry naturally for 4 weeks but ended up having an erpc. I waited 1 cycle and was lucky enough to get pregnant straight away, this sadly ended in my second missed miscarriage on 16th September, i was 10 weeks but measured 6 weeks 6 days, went back to hospital today and this time have managed a natural miscarriage. I have been referred to gyni specialist consultant as i have 2 6cm fibroids and want to rule this out as the cause but get told different things about them every time i go, i have had 7 ultrasounds throughout the 2 pregnancies and each Dr/sonographer tells me something different.
I am 28 OH 29, trying for our first baby and desperate for our dream to come true.

 

[Ladyfog]

Welcome Carnat and TTC - you're amongst friends here

Lisa - so sorry to here it's not good news. At least if you're prepared for the worst you should be prepared. I was really worried about MMC but that was much 'better' than I was expecting so hopefully it will be the same for you.

NSN - Hope you are feeling a bit brighter. Lots of hugs for you too

And Hi, to everyone else.

 

[patiently]

I was worried I hadn't seen u on the thread...aww hun...I'm sending an enormous hug and a shoulder for u to cry on...this is all too much for me some days too I think its time for a little break maybe...NTNP maybe...u need to heal ur soul a little...I do think once ur feeling better..ull feel up to anything again..I was honestly like that a couple months ago...so we had a 5 month break and it did wonders!! Revived my poor shattered soul. I'm sending lots of love and patience ur way sweet lady. Be strong k. Xxx

Thank you so much or your kind words, really it just becomes too much and ive lost so much weight stressing over getting a BPF im not eating properly either so guess its not helping. I get positive opks but then dont have AF after...well if i ovulated when i think i did i will be due to start AF on monday or Tuesday. But really really dont feel pregnant in the slightest and tested with a IC this morning and got a BFN. its kind of annoying that my name on here is patiently when i dont think i have the patience anymore. but thank you nonetheless im just going to focus on other things i think.

 

[patiently]

Patiently - don't beat yourself up over not being pregnant again yet. I don't want to get your hopes up but with both my pregnancies they were the months I was sure I wasn't and then I was. But if this isn't you're month, it will happen again another month. It feels like a race where you're always behind sometimes, but it's not. If you need a break, take it - one day we'll all look back at this as something that happened, but had a happy ending

.

Thank you Lady frog you really did give me hope...but i got a BFN on an IC a minute ago at 12dpo i think. No symptoms either whatsoever. You're right when you say all we can do is look forward so for me that means just pushing the ttc to the back of my mind for now and relaxing. I need a break going to start a new job too so this will take my mind off of things i think. Good luck to you though hope you get your bfp soon x x x x x

 

[patiently]

First off

Have you tested? Also, did you know that the body supresses the immune system when an egg has been fertilised to stop the body attacking the foreign object? Just hang fire hun, both of my pregnancies I had completely different symptoms...including no sore boobs the last time until 5 weeks

Hi NSN..I have tested this morning and got a BFN on an IC. Thanks for giving me hope...if AF doesnt show by Wednesday will take a FR EPT...i will keep you updated. Think she will show though as im lightly cramping...How are things on your side...?

 

[patiently]

NTAT im sorry you have to wait until wednesday but hope all goes well and you enjoy your time at Blackpool! the weather is great and the rides are even better...ENJOY! x

 

[SA JennyPenny]

I was worried I hadn't seen u on the thread...aww hun...I'm sending an enormous hug and a shoulder for u to cry on...this is all too much for me some days too I think its time for a little break maybe...NTNP maybe...u need to heal ur soul a little...I do think once ur feeling better..ull feel up to anything again..I was honestly like that a couple months ago...so we had a 5 month break and it did wonders!! Revived my poor shattered soul. I'm sending lots of love and patience ur way sweet lady. Be strong k. Xxx

Thank you so much or your kind words, really it just becomes too much and ive lost so much weight stressing over getting a BPF im not eating properly either so guess its not helping. I get positive opks but then dont have AF after...well if i ovulated when i think i did i will be due to start AF on monday or Tuesday. But really really dont feel pregnant in the slightest and tested with a IC this morning and got a BFN. its kind of annoying that my name on here is patiently when i dont think i have the patience anymore. but thank you nonetheless im just going to focus on other things i think.

 

[Neversaynever]

Hi ladies,

Hope I am not too late to join...

I am 31 and in the past four months we've had a M/C (natural) and just last weekend a chemical pregnancy.

We are desperate to have a viable pregnancy and be blessed with our first child.

OH and I have big families and already have four adorable little nephews betwen us... We'd so love to give our parents another grandchild!

We are actively TTC, I am not the most patient person in the world though.

All in all it's been a difficult few months but there a are a few positives from our horrible experiences so far:
1) I successfully gave up smoking [after 15 years] with pregnancy number one and even though I miscarried I stayed of the fags!
2) I seem to be able to get pregnant quite easily. First pregnancy was only a month after I came of the pill and we were using condoms. 2nd pregancy occured just one full cycle after M/C.

I look forward to the next chapter but I am quite scared.

xxxxxxxxx

Welcome Carnat... for your losses...you will bet support in here

Well done on stopping smoking...I stopped 11 months ago today and have not touched one since after smoking heavily for 22 years hoping your next bean will be the sticky one

Just wanted to update very quick...
This is another chemical. I started to spot bright fresh blood yesterday and it only seemed to get heavier. I made the decision to stop the progest and just let AF come and she def did later in the day.
I still tested BFP this morning which has me worried that it's going to turn out like my last one.
My last chemical was AWFUL.
It pretty much started exactly the same. My first beta even came back an 8. I stopped progest, AF came. For some reason I decided to test on cd3 and it came back BFP, actually darker than what it was before.
By cd10, my beta had actually increased to 60.
I started to spot and get very bad sharp pains down there and it freaked me out. RE did an u/s and it showed nothing out of the ordinary and after that my tests finally started to get lighter.
It was pretty damn awful and I do not want to go through that again.

Lisa...so sorry you are not having the outcome you and we were all hoping for hoping this is as easy as it can be for you

I had my first missed miscarriage in April, i was 10 weeks 6 days but baby measured 7 weeks 6 days. I tried to miscarry naturally for 4 weeks but ended up having an erpc. I waited 1 cycle and was lucky enough to get pregnant straight away, this sadly ended in my second missed miscarriage on 16th September, i was 10 weeks but measured 6 weeks 6 days, went back to hospital today and this time have managed a natural miscarriage. I have been referred to gyni specialist consultant as i have 2 6cm fibroids and want to rule this out as the cause but get told different things about them every time i go, i have had 7 ultrasounds throughout the 2 pregnancies and each Dr/sonographer tells me something different.
I am 28 OH 29, trying for our first baby and desperate for our dream to come true.

TTC1982...sorry for your losses too I have been told that fibroids can be an issue depending on where the egg implants but I might be incorrect. I do hope you get some answers...frustrating hearing different opinions on things that are so important to us

Welcome Carnat and TTC - you're amongst friends here

Lisa - so sorry to here it's not good news. At least if you're prepared for the worst you should be prepared. I was really worried about MMC but that was much 'better' than I was expecting so hopefully it will be the same for you.

NSN - Hope you are feeling a bit brighter. Lots of hugs for you too

And Hi, to everyone else.

Yeah...feeling better...ask me again in a few dyas and I'm sure the answer will be differetn though you ok?

First off

Have you tested? Also, did you know that the body supresses the immune system when an egg has been fertilised to stop the body attacking the foreign object? Just hang fire hun, both of my pregnancies I had completely different symptoms...including no sore boobs the last time until 5 weeks

Hi NSN..I have tested this morning and got a BFN on an IC. Thanks for giving me hope...if AF doesnt show by Wednesday will take a FR EPT...i will keep you updated. Think she will show though as im lightly cramping...How are things on your side...?

Well..cramping at 12 DPO is more than likely the witch coming if you are having BFN...I'm sorry if that sounds a bit harsh or negative? I don't believe in raising peoples hopes for the fun of it but seeing as I am pessimist... to whatever the outcome is

Happy weekend all...sun shining here and I'm sat inside catching up on here ..perfect chill out time for me though

XxX

 

[Tweak0605]

Hi ladies,

Hope I am not too late to join...

I am 31 and in the past four months we've had a M/C (natural) and just last weekend a chemical pregnancy.

We are desperate to have a viable pregnancy and be blessed with our first child.

OH and I have big families and already have four adorable little nephews betwen us... We'd so love to give our parents another grandchild!

We are actively TTC, I am not the most patient person in the world though.

All in all it's been a difficult few months but there a are a few positives from our horrible experiences so far:
1) I successfully gave up smoking [after 15 years] with pregnancy number one and even though I miscarried I stayed of the fags!
2) I seem to be able to get pregnant quite easily. First pregnancy was only a month after I came of the pill and we were using condoms. 2nd pregancy occured just one full cycle after M/C.

I look forward to the next chapter but I am quite scared.

xxxxxxxxx

I'm so sorry for your losses I'm not the most patient person in the world either, and it's killing me to wait for a BFP and a sticky bean. We're dying to give my parents their first grandchild, as they were ecstatic with my 1st pregnancy and were devastated when we lost it. Congrats on giving up smoking - that's awesome!

Just wanted to update very quick...
This is another chemical. I started to spot bright fresh blood yesterday and it only seemed to get heavier. I made the decision to stop the progest and just let AF come and she def did later in the day.
I still tested BFP this morning which has me worried that it's going to turn out like my last one.
My last chemical was AWFUL.
It pretty much started exactly the same. My first beta even came back an 8. I stopped progest, AF came. For some reason I decided to test on cd3 and it came back BFP, actually darker than what it was before.
By cd10, my beta had actually increased to 60.
I started to spot and get very bad sharp pains down there and it freaked me out. RE did an u/s and it showed nothing out of the ordinary and after that my tests finally started to get lighter.
It was pretty damn awful and I do not want to go through that again.

I'm so sorry

I had my first missed miscarriage in April, i was 10 weeks 6 days but baby measured 7 weeks 6 days. I tried to miscarry naturally for 4 weeks but ended up having an erpc. I waited 1 cycle and was lucky enough to get pregnant straight away, this sadly ended in my second missed miscarriage on 16th September, i was 10 weeks but measured 6 weeks 6 days, went back to hospital today and this time have managed a natural miscarriage. I have been referred to gyni specialist consultant as i have 2 6cm fibroids and want to rule this out as the cause but get told different things about them every time i go, i have had 7 ultrasounds throughout the 2 pregnancies and each Dr/sonographer tells me something different.
I am 28 OH 29, trying for our first baby and desperate for our dream to come true.

I'm so sorry for your losses But I'm glad they're taking some proactive steps in getting you checked out for the fibroids.



As for me ladies, I was feeling pretty down this week as it was my due date for my 1st baby. Had a pretty crappy week of crying a lot, and then people were joking around at work that I was pregnant. Really made me feel horrible, and I held it all in until I left. CD9, and hopefully start the BDing tomorrow and go every other day to every 3 days until ovulation. Will use the Preseed again too. Hopefully it works, cause I don't want to see another BFN, and I would love to tell my parents around Christmas time that I'm pregnant again.

 

[Neversaynever]

Tweak...hoping you get to have the best christmas present ever...a 12 weeks scan pic of a healthy baby

Likewise for everyone

XxX

 

[Neversaynever]

everyone

How are you all doing?

XxX

 

[cazi77]

Had my appt at m/c clinic yesterday. They were so nice and helpful. D/H and I are having the genetic testing. They are also testing me for blood clotting and lupus. No need for u/s had loads that are normal. Consultant said he expects that all tests will be normal and if they are I have a very high chance of having a baby. Also my ectopic doesn't really count as a m/c (I know it does to me) its just a bit more bad luck thrown into the mix. xxxx

Hope everone is well xx