A group for TTC#1 and had more than one loss?

[Tweak0605]

Had my appt at m/c clinic yesterday. They were so nice and helpful. D/H and I are having the genetic testing. They are also testing me for blood clotting and lupus. No need for u/s had loads that are normal. Consultant said he expects that all tests will be normal and if they are I have a very high chance of having a baby. Also my ectopic doesn't really count as a m/c (I know it does to me) its just a bit more bad luck thrown into the mix. xxxx

Hope everone is well xx

Glad the clinic was nice and helpful - and that they are running tests! I'm glad the consultant thinks they will come back normal, my doctor said the same thing about my testing.

Good luck

 

[patiently]

hi ladies tested this afternoon at i think 14dpo and BFN im just waiting for AF to show now!!! just too emotional to write at the moment. I expected it but still doesnt help..I really am not getting another clearblue digital test either i think its much easier to see 1 line instead of NOT PREGNANT!! good luck ladies hope you go on to getting your bfp! x

 

[Neversaynever]

Cazi...good to hear that your experience was a positive one and hoping the tests are clear..how long to test and then how long for results?

Patiently...sending you a massive I'm sorry hun I refuse to buy a digital unless I see two lines first. Sending you lots of strength to get through the next few crappy days and once the hag has left...positivity and hope resumes

AFM...now I am in the horrid TWW....

XxX

 

[NewToAllThis]

Hi everyone.

Getting nervous for tomorrow now. Had my pre-op appt this morning and got to be in for 8am tomorrow.

I pray that this goes well and I recover quickly. The wait has been excruciating!

I'll be in touch soon xx

 

[Neversaynever]

NTAT...sending you lots of to get you through tomorrow and the coming days

We will be here for you when you are ready

XxX

 

[lexi374]

Hi Caz glad you are getting tests now, my doc said much the same they dont expect to find anything, not sure what happens then though?

Patiently

NTAT Good luck for tom will be thinking of you

NSN whoop 2ww good luck hun

and welcome to everyone else xxx

 

[Tweak0605]

Hi everyone.

Getting nervous for tomorrow now. Had my pre-op appt this morning and got to be in for 8am tomorrow.

I pray that this goes well and I recover quickly. The wait has been excruciating!

I'll be in touch soon xx

Good luck tomorrow

 

[patiently]

Hi everyone.

Getting nervous for tomorrow now. Had my pre-op appt this morning and got to be in for 8am tomorrow.

I pray that this goes well and I recover quickly. The wait has been excruciating!

I'll be in touch soon xx

Hope all turns out well and you have a speedy recovery, look forward to hearing from you...Good luck and try not to worry too much...sending loads of hugs x

 

[patiently]

NSN fingers crossed that this is your last tww before you get your bfp! x

 

[justwaiting]

Hi Ladies, Been a bit mia lately.
I am now on cd5 as AF came early and start cycle tracking at the fertility clinic on saturday. I'm so excited but so god damn scared at the same time.

NTAT - Good luck with your op, I hope it all goes smoothly and you recover fast and well. Back to ttc in no time!!

Cazi- they say up to 50% of r/mc and infertility is unexplained or they just don't have the technology yet to find out why. i'm glad you found a nice place and they were helpful. My Specialist said it was better to find nothing because sometimes finding something lowers your odds. It's shitty either way.

NSN - Good luck in the tww hun. I hope this is your month.

Patiently - Remember digi's are less sensitive than things like a frer. don't loose hope until af shows. Then cry, scream and then pick yourself up and get back on that man of yours

 

[pink80]

Hi ladies,

Can I join? I'm 31, TTC #1 and we had a second MMC last week.

To be honest I'm feeling really numb - I don't know what to do with myself - I just want to curl up in my house and never go out again. I'm supposed to be going to back to work tomorrow and the thought terrifies me

I want to get back to TTC straight way but I dotn really see the point as I know it's going to end in bad news again, and I'm not sure I can go through it again. I'm not in a good place

 

[Neversaynever]

NSN fingers crossed that this is your last tww before you get your bfp! x

Thank you...scared :doh:

Hi Ladies, Been a bit mia lately.
I am now on cd5 as AF came early and start cycle tracking at the fertility clinic on saturday. I'm so excited but so god damn scared at the same time.

NSN - Good luck in the tww hun. I hope this is your month.

Sorry the hag came early and we are all hoping for you for this month. What tracking are they doing and are you have any meds this cycle?

Thansk for the good luck

Hi ladies,

Can I join? I'm 31, TTC #1 and we had a second MMC last week.

To be honest I'm feeling really numb - I don't know what to do with myself - I just want to curl up in my house and never go out again. I'm supposed to be going to back to work tomorrow and the thought terrifies me

I want to get back to TTC straight way but I dotn really see the point as I know it's going to end in bad news again, and I'm not sure I can go through it again. I'm not in a good place

Pink...of course you can join...so sorry for your loss

I totally understand what you mean about not seeing the point...I am just waiting to be let down againa nd for it all to go tits up and the heartache and devastation to start all over again

Do you have a journal? I found that once I started mine...I have felt better by letting everything out becauise it also makes you realise...you're not the only one who feels this way

AFM...terrible place last night and today....dreamed about Furry (recent loss) and I woke up a mess and have been all day. I know I have tried blocking this loss out and it keeps coming back at me when I am unprepared to deal with it. I just want to have a baby growing inside me more than anything and I have no bloody control over it what so ever

**big sigh** and I already feel like this month was a no go

XxX

ETA:- Just seen you have a journal Pink

 

[NewToAllThis]

I'm all done and back home. Extremely sore and tired.

Glad you've joined us Pink, we all need to support each other.
So sorry you're feeling so sad

 

[Neversaynever]

NTAT..just popped in your journal to see how you were

Take it easy hun

XxX

 

[pink80]

Thanks ladies - it's nice to know I'm not alone

New - glad your home - hope you're ok xx

 

[lexi374]

NTAT glad you are back, i felt pretty sore for the first night but had started to ease up the next day. I wish you a speedy recovery, though only in the physical sense i know, the emotional is much harder.

Pink welcome, go easy on yourself and dont go back to work until you feel a little stronger

Never have added to your journal, you are so supportive to every1 else dont forget to be kind to yourself hun

Good luck to just waiting and all the other ladies trying this month

xxxxxxxxx

 

[patiently]

NSN im so sorry you had a bad day...it just seems to creep up on you doesnt it...without warning...im sure that soon you will have your baby growing inside of you...and you never know, when i really felt like it wasnt my month it turned out to be my bfp both times...fingers crossed for you hope you get some good news in a few weeks...baby dust to you! x

Pink - im so sorry for both your losses, i too have had two losses...its so hard and i understand when you say you feel numb..me and my OH tried right away but i was an emotional wreck and couldnt help getting obsessed, its hard to ttc after a loss as you desperately want a bfp...but after two its...its...i cant even think of a word to describe how difficult it is...personally, i had a month off of work and had a note from the hospital...i couldnt face going back to work and like you wanted to stay in...you'll know when you can manage going in...so i say take all the time you need. i just wanted to let you know that we are ALL here to support you through this difficult time...sending lots and lots of hugs to you x

NTAL glad you're back!!! hope your ok...wishing you a speedy recovery sending lots of hugs your way x

AFM AF is a no show still!!!urgh last month i got a positive opk on cd 17 i think and didnt get AF until 21dpo...this month it looks like its going to be the same thing...why is my body so messed up...i couldve sworn i felt ovulation pains the day after my pos opk...mmm...maybe i was wrong...ive given up with the hpt...know im out but still waiting for AF just want her to turn up so we can proceed with next months bfp!! good luck to all those in the tww or approaching, and sending hugs to all who got AF x

 

[justwaiting]

NSN - I'm sorry you had such a bad dream and a horrible day. it does creep back on you at the most unexpected times. Be kind to yourself and let your self grieve when you need to. A tip if u cry in the shower u don't need tissues and wont end up with a sore face afterwards. We all know how ur feeling and have been there. This ttc stuff is hard and hurts so much sometimes, Life can be incredibly cruel to the most undeserving people When ur ready put back on your happy face and try and see the positives (it's taken me 5 months) you will get there.

Pink - I'm sorry for your losses and welcome this is a wonderful place for all of us. I will stalk your journal a little later. Take all the time you need to recover, I found the second loss so much harder emotionally, once u can push aside as bad luck, twice u start to think something is wrong. Just remember it's not your fault

NTAT - Good to see you back and hear it all went well. Try a hot pack on your belly to help with cramps and rest as much as possible, the anesthetic knocks you around for a few days after the pain goes(I find anyway) Hopefully back to ttc next month and a 2012 baby for you and us all!

Patiently - have you spoken to your dr about your cycles being all over the place, it must be so frusterating. I think thats the worst part about this whole process our bodies being all screwed up and tricking us. I hope af comes soon for you.

AFM just to answer NSN questions, the cycle tracking is blood tests and ultrasound done by a fertility clinic to confirm ovulation and time intercourse (they will call me and tell me when to dtd) I am not on any meds as my dr thinks I'm fertile (fallen pregnant within 2 cycles) but that I have issues keeping the babies so they will monitor my hormone levels and hopefully progesterone if I get a bfp. I'm actually happy that af came early means that I can try sooner and I have 3 cycles left for the year not 2 and a bit! Strange I know, I am trying to be as positive as possible and keep my fears below the surface. I can't wait to be pregnant but am thinking i'm gonna need to be comatose for the first 12weeks

 

[Neversaynever]

Lexi...thanks hun where are you at? for you

Patiently..thank you about your cycles..did you say you have PCOS? Only reason I am asking is that I'm sure you're aware that you can get false positives with OPK's that just pick up the surge and temping would be a more accurate method of tracking ovulation? Hope you are put out of your misery soon

Justwaiting...thank you too..horrible place to be eh? Anyway, here's hoping that now they are monitoring you more closely, once you egt your BFP, all will be ok. I also second the coma state until 12 weeks...or I'd rather get a BFN every month until it is a sticky baby

AFM...feel a tad better...I have such negative thoughts and the fact that I don't have ANY children makes it so much harder

Hope you are all ok...anyone testing for O or in TWW or where are you?

XxX

 

[bumpyplease]

hi ladies, can i join?

a bit about me: im 30, DH is 32, i started TTC Nov 2010. I seem to get pregnant fairly quickly but have had 3 losses in 6 months!!! 2 at 8 weeks (saw a hb in one) and the most recent one at 6 weeks.

im with a consultant now and thought it would be useful to say the investigations im having in case it can help anyone in the future. Also if anyone has had different/other testing please let me know and we can perhaps swap notes?

I have had:
Ultrasound scan - to check for polyps, fibroids, PCOS, Endemetriosis. All clear
Basic blood test at the docs including: day 21 progesterone, antiphosholipid, thyroid

Tomorrow I am having:
Full thrombophilia screen (including factor V Leiden and prothombin gene mutaton)
Lupus Anti Coagulant
Karyotyping (for me and OH)

Between day 2 and 5 of my cycle i am having a baseline hormone profile including FSH, LH, prolactin and testosterone

Just waiting for AF and for the blood tests now. Consultant has said when i next get pregnant he will put me on progesterone as a precautionary measure. also thinking about taking baby asprin from a positive prego test.

anyone else on BA?
for those ladies in the 2ww good luck x