I haven't read the whole thread so forgive me if this is a bit random.
I don't think it's snobbery to be honest.
A natural birth is medically better for both mother and baby.
A natural birth doesn't mean having to tear and such. It's just that a lot of people in the medical profession want the birth to fit into the their time line and not that of the baby.
Proper preparation for birth and a midwife/doctor who doesn't want to rush you reduces the risks of tearing and such dramatically.
Most women really don't need someone poking fingers into their vagina to see how far dilated they are and then telling them to push. Your body is a wonderful thing and knows how to give birth (usually) if it is left to get on with it. Hormone release tells you when to push. That waiting until you want to push makes a big difference to tearing or stretching.
And it's not just childbirth that I feel this way about, it's all things medical. If it is possible to avoid hospitals, drugs and medical intervention I will. I prefer natural methods of pain management if at all possible.
I will admit there comes a time when you have to hand over to medical intervention - I'm not saying someone should have surgury without anaesthetic, but in such a situation I would prefer if possible to have a local instead of a general - ie as little intervention as possible.
Where I feel sad (is that the word I want?) is when so many people choose that they want this or that pain relief before they even know if it will hurt or if they will cope. If someone has tried and found they can't cope/manage the pain and they want painkillers then go ahead, but they might also be surprised that it isn't as bad as they thought it would be.
I can't understand why people wish to plan c-sections or inductions. To me it's like step back - pregnancy is natural and unless there is a good reason for intervening then let nature take it's course. It just seems so often that doctors want babies born to fit in their schedule "ah yes mrs jones, I'm free on tuesday we'll get the baby out then".
I went 18 days over with Harvey and yes I was tired and all the other niggles that go with late pregnancy, but I couldn't get my head around forcing him out when there was nothing physically wrong with either of us.
I guess what I'm trying to say is "if it ain't broke don't fix it". Sure it's each to their own and this is just my personal opinion.
Is childbirth painless? Heck no but if you gave me the choice between a punch on the nose and giving birth - I'll choose giving birth everytime.
I don't think it's snobbery to be honest.
A natural birth is medically better for both mother and baby.
A natural birth doesn't mean having to tear and such. It's just that a lot of people in the medical profession want the birth to fit into the their time line and not that of the baby.
Proper preparation for birth and a midwife/doctor who doesn't want to rush you reduces the risks of tearing and such dramatically.
Most women really don't need someone poking fingers into their vagina to see how far dilated they are and then telling them to push. Your body is a wonderful thing and knows how to give birth (usually) if it is left to get on with it. Hormone release tells you when to push. That waiting until you want to push makes a big difference to tearing or stretching.
And it's not just childbirth that I feel this way about, it's all things medical. If it is possible to avoid hospitals, drugs and medical intervention I will. I prefer natural methods of pain management if at all possible.
I will admit there comes a time when you have to hand over to medical intervention - I'm not saying someone should have surgury without anaesthetic, but in such a situation I would prefer if possible to have a local instead of a general - ie as little intervention as possible.
Where I feel sad (is that the word I want?) is when so many people choose that they want this or that pain relief before they even know if it will hurt or if they will cope. If someone has tried and found they can't cope/manage the pain and they want painkillers then go ahead, but they might also be surprised that it isn't as bad as they thought it would be.
I can't understand why people wish to plan c-sections or inductions. To me it's like step back - pregnancy is natural and unless there is a good reason for intervening then let nature take it's course. It just seems so often that doctors want babies born to fit in their schedule "ah yes mrs jones, I'm free on tuesday we'll get the baby out then".
I went 18 days over with Harvey and yes I was tired and all the other niggles that go with late pregnancy, but I couldn't get my head around forcing him out when there was nothing physically wrong with either of us.
I guess what I'm trying to say is "if it ain't broke don't fix it". Sure it's each to their own and this is just my personal opinion.
Is childbirth painless? Heck no but if you gave me the choice between a punch on the nose and giving birth - I'll choose giving birth everytime.