Ok, I may have jumped the gun a little. While he did in fact leave me last night, he came back. We got into a huge argument about money (which is what we ALWAYS argue about) and he said some things and I said some things that were very hurtful. He has been in a dead end job for almost 2 years now and I am so unbelievably frusterated that I am the breadwinner of the family. Basically I told him to man up and get a second job and start helping me out. He did not like this very much and told me I just needed to be patient.
He then told me that he did not want to come home with me for Christmas to see my family. To try to get his airfare refunded because he didnt want to be 'faking it' in front of my parents. I was so mad at this comment I stormed out and went to fold laundry in another room. ( I clean when I am angry) I came back in and said "You know, this isnt exactly the fairy tale marriage I dreampt about when I was 6 years old. I never EVER thought I would be the one providing for the family."
And that did it. Thats when he slammed his computer shut and yelled some explitive, said that was the worst thing I could have ever said to him, and he stormed out. On his way he said, dont call me dont try to find me, just forget about me. You are better off without me in your life making you miserable...
After several texts initaited by him and 4 hours later, he came home. We talked and I cried some more and things are far from perfect, but at least he is home and we are working on things. I still dont know what to do. He has never been that angry before and I dont feel bad about anything I said..
Any advice would be so welcomed.. Thank you all!