Ej, I have focal adeno, but I was told because of it, I wasn't a candidate for IVF. To do IVF they like to have a very pristine uterus. But I suppose every place is different in their opinions. I was looking into a gestational carrier as well, but ended up doing IUI and fell pregnant with this baby. However I've had 4 other pregnancies besides this one (which I lost), so for me getting pregnant wasn't the issue, keeping them was the issue. Do you know if your clinic will do IVF with diffuse adeno?
Congrats on your little girly!!!