AF due July 23/24? Looking for a buddy?

[Coleey]

Hopefully your lil' man makes an appearance soon tbell

That's so exciting Tia, not long now at all Your little lady will just miss you hun, she won't ignore you. I was worried about the same thing with Alex when I left him over night with his grandparents one time, so we could have dinner/see a movie etc, but he just ran over to me when he saw me and gave me the BEST cuddles. Poor daddy didn't get a look in lol! I'm sure your lil' lady will be wanting lots of mummy cuddles

It's nice to know I'm not the only person to have a late night cleaning fest Hope the witch stays away hun.

Are you all having good easter hols? xx

 

[t-bell]

Cheers girls for the updates xx
Mari when you relax and don't plan it and put yourself understress to save money etc is usually when it happens, get onthat holiday that's what helped me i think,
I have everything in sitting waiting just can't wait for him to come, still no baby lol but I will update u when he does make an appearance lol pains amounted to nothing lol
Pearce loves staying at my brothers and my mums and mil and he just hugs and kisses ms the next day, even if you are away for a couple of days it will just mean extra kisses when you are back together

Happy Easter girls xx

 

[LisaTelsa01]

Hi
I was wondering if I was able to join this. I am TTC but don't really have anyone to talk to about it, most of my friends are pregnant now!
I have had some spotting this month, about a week after my AF. not sure what it is but I am hopeful that this will be the month for us as spring is here!
xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Mariposa21]

Blooming heck, we have a newbie to the thread! Of course you can join flower. We have a lot of lovely pregnant ladies in this thread but I'm still ttc ttc for 10 months now after VR and I'm 24 this is a really friendly thread though huni so whether you are ttc/pregnant or whatever it's a nice place to come and chat xxx

 

[LisaTelsa01]

ah thank you so much, that is so nice of you.
I have been trying for about 4 / 5 months, sometimes feel like it will never happen! I was on the depo injection before but when we started TTC, we thought it would happen straight away. Will this be your first that your trying for?
Really sorry, as I am new here, I am not sure of some of the lingo. What does VR mean?
Sending you lots of luck xxxxxx

 

[Tia Maria]

Heaaay Lisa welcome to our lovely thread (and now yours)
Congratulations on trying to conceive this has proven to be a lucky thread so fingers crossed for you Spotting a week after could be due to ovulation so get jumping on your man lol

Thanks girls for the reassurance i know its irrational but she's such a daddy's girl anyway its making me paranoid. I'll kill him if she doesnt want to know me afterwards lol
And nope *shudders* not long 15days to be exact *shudders again*

Coleey how are you feeling???? Has the sickness subsided for you???

Mari that must be some boring ass party for you to need to clean afterwards lol What car did you get btw? Any symptoms yet?

Hope everyones ok this evening

xXx

P.S. Happy easter!!! I'm trying so hard not to eat Martys malteasers....he takes ages to eat them and he's had them for like two days!!!! Its so frustrating when i'm such a greedy cow lol

 

[Tia Maria]

Update:::

I got the malteasers!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Coleey]

Welcome Lisa! Always room for another here, we haven't had anyone new in a while, hence the cobwebs Good luck!

I'm not too good at the moment. I've got a cold, sore throat and a cough. A few days ago I was saying my ms had got better, but I think I jinxed it as it kicked my arse today! Lol!

Oh my god, I want malteasers! xx

 

[Tia Maria]

Awww Coleey im sorry you're poorly that sucks, i hope your hubby is pampering you and making sure you can just relax. I really hope you feel better soon. It's sods law as soon as you think you're getting better it always comes back to bite you tut
I'm sending healthy thoughts your way...i'll..er...have to get back to you on the malteasers hehe i um...ate them all

xXx

 

[Mariposa21]

Haha Tia bless ya. You ate all his Malteasers but you are pregnant and have a v goOd excuse hehe

No no, no symptoms at all. With every month that goes by it just seems less and less likely VR means vasectomy reversal. It's ruined my life.

So glad you have stumbled across our thread Lisa, with what it is called I wonder whether we will get more ppl coming in around July time heehee. I know it feels like its never going to happen but four months is early day flower it will happen xx are u doing anything like ov tests or temping? Xxx

 

[LisaTelsa01]

Haha Tia bless ya. You ate all his Malteasers but you are pregnant and have a v goOd excuse hehe

No no, no symptoms at all. With every month that goes by it just seems less and less likely VR means vasectomy reversal. It's ruined my life.

So glad you have stumbled across our thread Lisa, with what it is called I wonder whether we will get more ppl coming in around July time heehee. I know it feels like its never going to happen but four months is early day flower it will happen xx are u doing anything like ov tests or temping? Xxx

Hi everyone, thank you for all being so welcoming! It is good to talk to people that are in the same situation or people that have been. It is great to see all the lovely pregnant ladies as well!

I have heard about so many people that have got pregnant after having VR, even though it can take a while sometimes. I understand why it feels like it will never happen though and waiting feels like forever but I have a good feeling for you. Have you been to the doctors as well because I have heard about them being able to do another op where they cut half the tubes so it doesn't have to travel so far? Sorry, I don't know the technical terms but I am sure they can do something like that.

We haven't tried any OV tests yet because my OH didn't want us to get too stressed out with the TTC ( even though I am thinking about it every minute of every day ). I think we will start trying the OV tests at around the 6 month mark.

sending your some lucky baby dust

hope you are all enjoying your Easter weekend xxxxxx

 

[Wilsey]

Oops I haven't been on in a while! Welcome Lisa!!!!

We can't change the name of our thread because the OP is no longer around. So it's a bit out of date. We will probably have people posting around July haha.

Cole - sorry to hear you aren't feeling well! I too will send you healthy vibes.

Tia - I hear you on the chocolate front. My MIL gave me a pack of creme eggs and my DH was working that night, so I sat on the couch and ate all four of them. She then wished me a happy easter two days later and told me to enjoy my eggs...yeah, I'd already eaten them...

Mari - When is AF due?

As for me: finally unpacked a lot of the nursery stuff, so no longer have things just sitting in gift bags. Still have a bit to do, but definitely getting there!!

 

[Mariposa21]

Aww thank you for being so nice Lisa- will look into what you suggested
Ovulation is really easy to pinpoint by observing cm(cervical mucus...grosse I know lol) xxxx

 

[Tia Maria]

Lol i'm glad to hear i'm not the only greedy one. Although ive never felt it with creme eggs...i like the galaxy ones. But as Mari has said we're pregnant we're allowed to be greedy-guts
Great news about the nursery i bet that's a weight off your mind...and a lovely room to look at What needs doing now?

Mari i hope you don't still feel like the VR has ruined your life, they are very successful operations. When did he have it done btw? How are you feeling this evening? AF should be due pretty soon now right?

Lisa i can see why your OH has wanted to kind of take it easy with the TTC, to reduce the stress and what not. Although i don't mean to sound sexist (but i'm going to lol) but i don't think men know just how stressful it is for women when we are TTC. Like you said its all we think about lol. Have you been doing charting or anything or just been going with the flow?

I hope everyones ok. I'm waiting for my takeaway to arrive, i'm so hungryyy.
Marty did the sweetest thing for me earlier....i got stuck in the rain while shopping so i was miserable lol and he ran me a hot bath, put a cup of tea next to it and put some music on for me....it was soooo relaxing

Have a great evening everyone

xXx

 

[Wilsey]

Spoilt Tia! And nice job Marty!

Just need the cot to be sanded and painted. Luckily bubs will be in the bassinet first, so there isn't a huge rush on that. Would still be nice to have it set up though.

Other than that, just putting up the wall decals. Everything else is put away and ready for baby - eeep!

 

[Mariposa21]

Looking at your tickers and signatures is just mad! Can't believe I can remember 1st chatting to ya wilsley and now your due date is 2 weeks away! Great stuff!

Af due this Friday but will probably will arrive Saturday- don't really see the point in trying to symptom spot as its pointless I feel. Going to docs when af comes and goes this month VR was done around march last year and was healed in June/July so just short of a year

Marty is so sweet bless him, how thoughtful!

So glad u r getting everything in its place for LO arrival wilsley, so exciting. And you deserve the creme egg treat! Hehe x

 

[LisaTelsa01]

Hi Tia
I agree, men do not know how stressful it is at all! How has your OH been during the pregnancy? I can't wait to be pregnant because I know my hubby will give me massages and things all the time!
Mari, I think that is a good idea going back to the doctors. Keep pushing them and pushing them until they do something. There are so many options as well, last resort maybe being IVF. If your OHs sperm is fine but just not getting through, they would be able to freeze them and then use them for IVF ( I think ). My parents had IVF and had my little brother, first time trying so I am sure you will get there in the end!
I give this advice out however, sit there crying most evenings thinking that I will never get a BFP! Plus, I am having constant spotting at the moment so I don't know what that means. xxx

 

[Coleey]

I thought I'd share this picture with you ladies. I'm so in love already! Was lovely to see it's lil' heart beating away too

Hope you're all well xx

 

[Wilsey]

Nawww congrats Cole! Did the scan put the timing at the same as your ticker?

 

[Coleey]

Thanks hun Nope, baby was measuring at 10 weeks, but she said it could be +/- a week at this point. I won't change my ticker just yet

How are you? xx