Af is coming...

[schnoodle]

i can feel her.

I cant take much more of this heartache every month...

 

[Anxious5]

How long have you been trying? This would be my 3 mnth and i cant imagine the ladies who have been doing it for years ..... Stay strong hun!!!

 

[Hazelnut]

Aww schnoods......i'm sorry lovie. I hope you're ok. It's shi*e isn't it. x x x x
Big hugs. x x x x x x x x

 

[schnoodle]

this is our 6th month. i know i shouldnt there are those than have been trying for years but i cant help but worry something is wrong x

 

[Hazelnut]

Why don't you try charting hun? x x

 

[schnoodle]

i have a medical cndition and dont have a regular sleep pattern hun so i couldnt rely on charting at all.

 

[Minno]

So sorry Schnoodle. Its awful isn't it. I hate the fact that we can tell so early when she's on her way. Soon you can get back to trying again hun, and remember, 6 months is way below average for a normal couple. Gotta keep going xxx

 

[Eyes On Fire]

I'm so sorry!! It's terrible seeing how many people struggle to get pregnant or try so long. It makes me feel bad even being in the TWW since I wasn't even trying. But my cousin has been struggling for years so just keep your head up. It'll happen for you eventually! Probably when you least expect it.

 

[schnoodle]

thankyou hun i know they say the average is a year but literally everyone i know has gotten pregnant within the first 3 mnths. x its getting soul destroying

 

[x-ginge-x]

I have been trying 20 months now hun, and right now i'm 5 days late with negative tests! So I know how you feel on thinking theres something wrong!

 

[meow951]

schnoodle you could try it. I wake a lot in the night and i can still see an ovulation pattern. I always wake at about 5am and then frequently until 7:45am when i get up. I just take my temp at 7:45am and i can still see a pattern.

Although some people it doesn't work like this as they are sensitive and end up with temps all over the place. It might be worth giving it a shot though, it still works for me.

 

[schnoodle]

aw ginge im sorry! crikey, i live 5 mins aaway from you !

 

[x-ginge-x]

where you at schnoodle?

 

[schnoodle]

chapeltown hun x

 

[x-ginge-x]

haha im in kendray

 

[Casey-Jones]

Chin up Schnoods, we're all in this together hunny xxx

 

[schnoodle]

thanks sweetie

ginge i know kendray! went to college at barnsley!

how old are you and oh hun x

 

[x-ginge-x]

Im 19 hes 20 hun and been trying since October '08

 

[schnoodle]

bless you hun im 23 my dh is 28.

its annoying cos i went to the dr a few mnths back and she said at my age my body would be actively trying to get me pregnant.

well,my body is either lazy or broken cos its not doing a very good job of it!

 

[jeeplover2]

If you think there's a problem, then I would suggest getting tested. My DH & I have been trying 4 months now. He was exposed to a lot of stuff in the Navy, so we're both getting checked out soon. My body is a little crazy. Nothing scary, but I want to get checked out now instead of waiting a year & then finding out something was wrong. It's your body, you have the right to get checked out now if you want to. If you're worried, go to the doctor. Everybody's experience is different. Don't let anyone discourage you from going to the doctor if you want to. It's only been 6 months, so there might now be anything wrong, but it is your choice to get checked out. Besides, most things I've read say to get checked out before you start trying. Statistics say that the majority of women will get pregnant within 3 months. Also, get him to get checked out too. 50% of infertility problems are the man's sperm. Good luck with it! And try not to stress out too much, that can hurt you're chances. Make an appointment, that in itself will relieve some stress.

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