Well, that didn't go as planned ...
Firstly when I got there, the docs on the ward round had decided that Andrew couldn't leave the ward as they weren't happy about him being off the SaO2 monitor. Cue me getting upset (I'd got myself psyched up for this), and I even offered to have the monitor in the room. Thank goodness the afternoon docs reconsidered and said that he'd be fine so long as the nurses checked him regularly (which they did).
I started to try to BF on demand from 2pm, but he thrashed around and only latched intermittently; after 45 minutes, he'd be so tired that he'd fall asleep from exhaustion rather than fullness, I reckon. I found it totally tiring and demoralising that he'd be upset for an hour, unable to feed properly - the purpose of staying in was to see if he was any better when feeding on demand, but the answer came back as "no", just that he was more desperate and more frantic.
He ended up back on the ward from midnight, having a tube top-up then and again following a BF attempt at 4am.
At 8am, I decided not to put him through the misery again, and offered him EBM by bottle. Considering it was his first time, he did brilliantly - duck to water. The big thing is that he settled back to sleep afterwards, rather than lying griping, pouting and wailing.
At lunchtime, I tried him on the breast for 15 mins until he became seriously upset, and then topped him up by bottle (rather than tube). I'll try this again at 4ish.