Hi Ladies, hope you are all well.
Had a bit of a shock today - midwife called from the antenatal clinic at the hospital to give me the results from my Down's blood test. Unfortunately I am higher risk with a 1:65 chance. She told me anything below 1:200 is higher risk.
I had a little cry before calling DH to let him know, but I wasn't upset because "oh my god my baby might have down's" I was upset at the thought that my baby might be poorly and what could I do to make it better.
We had a good chat about things when we got home from work and have decided not to have the amniocentesis because this baby is going to be so loved whether it is perfect, has down's or is missing a limb! And as hubby says it is only a 1.5% chance that it will have the condition.
He said he almost wishes I didn't have the blood test done now but I said that I don't because if we hadn't and our baby is born with down's it would be such a humongous shock, but at least now if it happens we will be slightly more prepared for the possibility.
We are going to see the midwife at the clinic on Thursday just for a chat - it was all a bit overwhelming when she was going through all the info on the phone today.
So we have just got to be positive now but I know that no matter what happens this baby is going to be so spoiled lol!!!