Any one have to wait until after AF is late for a BFP?

[kitcat42]

Yeah the prog makes my LP longer. But never this long. Bleeding is a little more than earlier. Cramping more now. I think AF is here going to continue the Progesterone until I get bloods back, that is what the Dr said to do. But I thnik im out. On to next month!

 

[kitcat42]

My LP is 10 days. It has been 13-14 days on the prog.

 

[KLa826]

Hi ladies! Sorry for my absence- lots going on and none of it good! Haha! AF got me on CD 30 after 4 days of dark brown spotting. I guess 8 years on BCP really will mess with a body- because this was month 3 off and I'm still all screwed up (for lack of more medically appropriate terms!). I've decided I really need to stop TTC for now and focus on all the other craziness in my life (selling a home, buying a home, moving in with parents in the interim, end of the school year craziness at work etc). Living with my parents for the next 5 or so months is not going to be conducive to BDing and paying attention to when I O if we can't will just make me angry!

Amanda- sorry to hear about your blood work. FXd something gives for you soon (either AF shows or you end up with a BFP...Obviously hoping for the later!)

Kitcat- When are you expecting to get your results? I will definitely have my FXd that yours is good news!

Piece- thank you for being so kind and supportive Any word for your Dr? Weren't you supposed to go on the 24th?

Apologies in advance if it takes me some time to get back to you all- but know that I have my FXd for you all and am hoping for lots of BFP's!!!

 

[kitcat42]

thank KLa! Stared spotting today. Not a full flow yet but when I wipe I see bright red. Hoping its just spotting and not AF! I had 1 tinge of pink when I checked my CP at 13 DPO. So Im hoping that was IB. I should get my results within 48 hrs. Called the Dr and she said it might take 2 days for the results. Not happy about that! Good luck with moving and all the madness!

 

[pieceofpie]

Kla hugs.

Kitcat and amanda fx .

 

[amanda111308]

I am surprised I am not as upset as I thought I would be but who knows I do produce the hog hormone very slowly. With my son I only had a faint positive on hpt at 8 weeks so who knows?? But I am not getting my hopes up for sure. I have had long cycles for whatever reason and was sure about pregnancy then too and nothing came of it.

Been getting weird twinges all day... Trying not to give in and wonder anymore... Lol

 

[amanda111308]

**hcg not hog lol

 

[amanda111308]

Omgosh pieceofpie I just noticed you live in the Bahamas you lucky lucky LUCKY lady!! I bet it's so beautiful!! *swoon*

 

[kitcat42]

Ok ladies picked up my results at the lab. Less than 1 hcg. Bfn on the nloods. So my sootting should be af for sure. Not sure why yemps were so high ...last minth they were not. On to next month!

 

[pieceofpie]

Amanda and Kitcat, I cant understand why you both got negative results. Amanda, the mere fact that AF has not shown her head I still think there is hope for you because you said you produce hcg slowly so chances are you might not have produce enough hcg for your blood to pick up or like Kitcat it might be showing as a 1, never knows. I will be with you until AF comes.

Kitcat just looking at your chart looks like you had blighted ovum, meaning that pregnancy occur but did not implanted properly into the lining of uterus for whatever reason, I am sure if an u/s was done they might have seen it because you had a triphasic pattern in your chart. When I had my M/C which is what I had mention to you my blood results come back hcg 1 meaning that the hcg was getting less and less as the days went on until eventually it leaves your blood stream so chances are you m/c about anywhere from 3-7 days ago.

What a bomber. I know this because that was exactly the count I had with my M/C and my doctor explain it all to me. Good luck with the next one, sometimes I truly wish doctors would tell their patients the real reason for things happening, next be harm with questions and we are here to help along the way.

No symptom today, temperature drop a bit today but still high. Drop because DH would not leave me alone throughout the night so was unable to get a good sleep.

Amanda, I live in the Bahamas but not a Bahamian, its indeed a beautiful country with beautiful waters. I live on the very edge of the island with the sea in the back of my yard and the lake just five house from ours though the corner. Driving home in the evening is one of the most breath taking view you could wish for because the area is unspoiled by noise, crime and people. My country is very pretty as well, we have mountains, rivers, waterfalls and rain forest including various coves but it does not have the beautiful beaches like the Bahamas However, its very beautiful none the less.

 

[amanda111308]

Oh wow pieceofpie sounds like a dream!! And what a beautiful place to raise a child one day still no sign of AF this morning but man did I ever sleep late my husband has been up with our son for 2 hours and let me sleep in (bless him) he got little man his breakfast and is now playing with him the family room .

I really do hope there is still a chance I could be pregnant. A late January / early February baby would be amazing clinging to the smallest shred of hope... Today is cycle day 45 for me. Thank you so much for the great support ladies it's nice that there aren't several people either and we can keep the convos easily organized and up to date (although I will welcome everyone who needs support of course )

 

[kitcat42]

Pieceofpie: I was thinking the same thing. Im never late...usually early but not late. In defense of my Dr. They are moving offices and would not have been able to give me the results until Monday. So I called the lab and picked them up myself. I had to know what was going on! So I will go over the results when my Dr is back in the office.

 

[pieceofpie]

Hello ladies, how are you doing tonight?

First please allow me to make a correction to a post. DH was suppose to be written as Ex BF, guess I got a bit carried away and caught up in what was happening around me I am single and both my mom and I live in my home, with 6 cats, 6 dogs (two are hand raise babies from a latter of 9, their mom was poison) one pitbull and three others, one rooster name Percy who thinks he is a dog and a tank full of fish with lots of fruit trees in my yard including plants, a pain to rake up leaves.

That said here goes. Amanda I am happy that you were able to sleep late and DH sounds like he is a dream of a man, not many men would something like that now a days....Cherish him. I still think there is hope once AF has not arrived so my fingers cross for you on that matter, on the other matter what did the doctor say caused the delay period, was it a late ovulation or what? Whatever it is I hope, truly hope it works out in the best of favours for you.

Kitcat, I was just too upset and I hope that next month is your time. How long before your doctor settle in his new location? I think the reason for the M/C must be address before the next ovulation? It would be so nice if we have a least two positives on this board so lets see who is going to be the first one.

On a good note just as I was typing this post my girlfriend called to tell me she is pregnant, I am so happy for her because she had a M/C in February and I just love to know that someone is elated in this time of dark shadows.

Well ladies I am heading off to bed to get some sleep or watch Andy Griffith Show until I am fully asleep so peace out.

 

[amanda111308]

I am doing good tonight, kinda cramps but what else is new lol no sign of AF still but I have a weird suspicion she is on her way... Not sure why I feel this way but nonetheless I am kinda of hoping AF does come so I can start fresh and start temping. My bbt should arrive in the mail tomorrow and then I can start getting a better idea of when I ovulate rather than relying solely on cm and symptom spotting until I make myself crazy and obsessed lol

Hoping everyone had a great day!!

 

[pieceofpie]

Amanda have your tried Fertility Friend or countdowntopregnancy these are two site that chart your bbt for free and also give you an idea when you ovulated including days past due symptoms. CTP is completely free but FF has a free charting site but other bits of information etc you would have to pay for. Most person uses Fertility Friend and when you start you get a full VIP service free for a month.

I am cd 34 as of today one more day and I would past last month, I guess I will test next month.

 

[amanda111308]

I have an app on my iPhone called my days and it makes a chart also and is super easy to use but I think I might take your advice and use either cdtp or ff too.

Little update on me. Yesterday Igot a slight tinge of blood in my watery cm... But nothing since no brown spotting or anything... What the heck is wrong with my silly body?! I am soo thoroughly confused now...

 

[MrsD140810]

Hi guys,
Hope you don't mind me joining in but I have been following your conversations and can relate to a lot of what you say!
I am now on CD 37, 19 DPO and my AF is 9 days late. I had brown spotting a few days after ovulation and been having symptoms such as cramps and some dizziness. I have taken 3 pregnancy tests.. all BFN.
Past couple of days I have had slight brown spotting again, only when I wipe. Had cramps too. Have been thinking this is my AF finally showing up. Upset me, yet also relieved to finally have some answers this month. But the spotting is very light and keeps stopping and starting. Hasn't developed into full AF.
I imagine it is my AF and I'm going to wake up tomorrow with full on period. But at the moment I am still really frustrated because it keeps stopping. What is going on?! This is my 3rd month TTC and cannot cope with going through this every month! It's crazy!
Wishing you all get BFP's soon!

 

[AngelWings215]

Hope you don't mind me joining either

Last AF was April 21st. My cycles are 33-36 days long. I do have PCOS BUT my cycles have been fairly regular for the past 2-3 years. My last cycles were 10/2/12, 11/4/12, 12/2/12 1/4/13 2/12/13 3/17/13 and 4/21/13.

AF for this month was due on the 23rd if 33 day cycle or the 26th if a 36 day cycle. If I didn't O this month, how late would that make my cycle or would I completely skip this month? I am now on CD 40 and 20 DPO (according to FF) I don't temp so Idk if I actually ovulated on proposed date of the 10th. I took an HPT 2 days ago and got a BFN. Should I test again in a week or so or should I just chalk it up to an anovulatory cycle and forget about it? If I am pregnant I would be 5 weeks and 1 day today.

If your body is going to skip AF for the month why does it gear up with the boob soreness, cramping here and there, bloating etc just to not show up? I am miserable smh. The ONLY day we had semi-unprotected sex was the 10th. We started out w/o a condom and then about halfway through he put a condom on. IF I did O late then there is no way I could be pregnant right?

 

[pieceofpie]

Hi ladies welcome to our site, its very small where we had sisterly girlie chat with each other on some level in depth details.

Amanda, I thought I read some places that having a tiny speck of blood is a good thing. Have you ever considered that just maybe you ovulated late and is just implanting. Lets see if you can wait until next week then test, test, test like crazy. You said it yourself that you tested positive late. Fingers cross that AF never shows for the next 39 weeks.

Kitcat, I truly hope we get an answer to that blighted ovum. I am sure that's what it was finger cross for you tooo. Hugs

MrsD14,
I went through similar thing a few months ago. I was sooo convince that something happen because I had brown watery fluid, it was not red just brown and watery for a few days then nothing, did not come regularly like the average period and only appear when I wipe as well only to find out it was indeed AF. (Doctor said sometimes our cycle come like this not sure why) I wore panty liner throughout and it lasted seven days, I am normally a 2-4 days person.

1. Did you have any mucus discharge? or could you have ovulate early and the spotting you saw on the day you thought you ovulate was actually something else? Did you check to see if the lining of your uterus was thick enough to sustain a pregnancy.?

Another point to look into is the fact that you may be on the second menstrual cycle because your period started a few days ago.

TTC is not easy and for some of us, self included have been trying for years without success but envision the rewards at the end. That is why we have communities like these to support each other while going through one of the most difficult time for a woman. Are you currently taking folic acid or DHEA, they work in getting your body ready for pregnancy.

Angelwings, I don't think you are pregnant if you only had unprotected sex on the 10 which would be cd 20 or did you ovulated a bit later. What you are describing is a delayed cycle and PMS before AF shows her head. Give her another few days and she will be here where you could start afresh, don't forget to use folic acid and please start charting your bbt its an excellent indicator of when you ovulate.

I will however keep my FXX for you and hope that you get your positive soon.

 

[kitcat42]

Thanks Pieceof pie! Im over it! On to June! Ill talk to the Dr about it but Im sure she will just say I was late since I never got a pos HPT at home or in her office. But I really do love my Dr.