I am so pleased to see this thread, I'm 41 , 42 in April, I have a 19year old son, I had one miscarriage 5 years ago , we were not trying, I was on the pill.
I thought I was happy with one child, and have been since he was born, but the past 9 months I've become so broody, I never have felt like this before, I so badly want another baby, my husband was shocked when I bought this up, as you can imagine, he thought our family was complete. He said we can try for a year, but then if nothing has happened by the time we are 43, then that's it.
I have endometriosis , and last month I had a laparoscopy and hystoscopy to remove the endo, the consultant said was I planning on anymore children, I said no! I don't know why I did, he said if I was now was the time as everything is clear.
I'm so scared lol, but I so want to try, I feel so much more ready now than I did at 23.
Good luck to everyone
Sorry for the long post lol.