Thanks ladies. I know all of this in my head, it's just hard to listen to. I think that my age is really making me feel pressured to get pregnant super fast. Also, my history. My dd was a surprise, my oldest son took one time (literally, lol). Then my ex and I got divorced, fast forward a bit and OH and I decide to go off the pill, and we were pregnant 3 months later (sadly ended in miscarriage at 18 weeks), then got pregnant 2 cycles after my cycles started up again (chemical), then got pregnant with Lucas the next cycle. So it seems I've never had a problem getting pregnant, and this is now the longest it's ever taken me. I have no patience, lol