Any ttc #2's?

[Arcanegirl]

Freecycle is where if ou have an item you dont want/use anymore you put up an offer and other people who could use it will come and pick it up for free.

 

[Vickie]

thanks for the warm welcome everyone

I did a cheapy test this morning and BFN. I wasn't expecting a positive anyways so wasn't tooooooooooooo disappointed

 

[Arcanegirl]

Addict already!

 

[Vickie]

I hid it from Stan because he'd just roll his eyes at me

I wouldn't have wasted it if it wasn't a dollar store test

 

[Arcanegirl]

 

[Vickie]

so how careful is everyone being this time around (like pre-pregnancy stuff?) I was sooooooooooooo careful with Hannah (cooked my deli meat, no raw eggs etc. etc.) and I've not done any of it this time. I actually feel kinda guilty but not guilty enough to stop

 

[snowangel187]

Hey everybody, I'd like to join if you don't mind. My name is Heather and I'm 27 (ugh).. We've been trying off and on for a little over a year, with probably only 5-6cycles that had a "real" possibility.. My cycles vary but are usually in the range of 31-35days. I'm currently near the end of my TWW.. and at first was pretty positive about this cycle even tho DH was out of town while I had the most EWCM but thankfully got home the day before ovulation. So we did get a couple bd'ing sessions in, but BFN yesterday at 9dpo and major back pain today.. So pretty sure AF will be here in the next 2-3 days.. Will be temping and opk'ing like a mad women next cycle, if I don't get my BFP this cycle!!

 

[Vickie]

Welcome snowangel and good luck!

 

[snowangel187]

so how careful is everyone being this time around (like pre-pregnancy stuff?) I was sooooooooooooo careful with Hannah (cooked my deli meat, no raw eggs etc. etc.) and I've not done any of it this time. I actually feel kinda guilty but not guilty enough to stop

I was beyond crazy while pregnant, but with my DD we really only started thinking about trying and got pregnant the first month.. So I was only eating semi healthy, and I dont drink or smoke anyways..

But while pregnant I wouldn't eat chocolate because of the caffeine..
I totally followed the diet thing and then ended up with gestational diabetes so my diet was even more strict.

 

[Vickie]

No chocolate

You were way more cautious than me than!

My diet is actually much healthier now than even when I was last PG (I've lost a bit, well quite a bit , of weight since than) and am hoping to keep any gain for the next pregnancy in check and not go overboard on my eating etc. I don't fancy having to lose so much again (though I was big before pregnancy so can't really complain that that was the reason I was overweight )

 

[Arcanegirl]

snowangel!

I wasnt really careful before with food as i have a quite relaced attitude i guess I dont see the point of diet restrictions untill i know im pg. I dont drink or smoke either...

I do however need to get back on track with eating better, 3 weeks off work and queue boredom eating etc

 

[mightyspu]

FF thinks I haven't ovulated. is this a ploy to stop me testing at 2dpo?

 

[Vickie]

I have to stop testing

I don't drink or smoke either

 

[snowangel187]

I'm usually pretty good about not testing... Unless I'm on BnB too much then the pressure gets to me. I tested at 9dpo this cycle and won't test again until Monday unless I get a temp drop or AF before then.. I usually just make my self pee first thing in the morning and then convince myself that any other pee throughout the day "won't work" And then again the next day pee before I think..

 

[Arcanegirl]

Naughty ladies!............I tested too

 

[mightyspu]

I'm the same! Bnb is such a bad influence sometimes

I gave up smoking to ttc Jack, it's been over 2 years now.

 

[snowangel187]

I was thinking earlier that BnB for us is kinda like an alcoholic going to a bar, or an addict going to a drug house.. I'm pretty sure it helps fuel our "addiction"

 

[mightyspu]

You know that the chances of a bfp are slim at 3dpo, but there's always something that'll convince you to test!

 

[Arcanegirl]

I dont even know what dpo I am

 

[mightyspu]

according to ff, I am no dpo as I have not laid an egg yet, however according to the opk I did, I am 3dpo. I'm going with that otherwise I will go mental!