Anyone else about to try straight after mc?

[BabyBumpLove]

Hello all and welcome to the newcomers, seem to be a few over the last few days Sorry that you are all going through this but know that we're all here for eachother

I was so hoping for a bfp for Christmas but unfortunately af eventually came yesterday after a whole week of spotting and confusing/ teasing me into thinking maybe it could be implantation bleeding instead Now I am all worried that I started spotting so early, it would only have been about 8dpo - I'm hoping my cycles are just a little off after m/c and will be better next month... Feeling pretty rubbish about it ll right now though

Awww sorry chicky! I hope things look up for you soon

 

[Little_1]

Hey girls, just a quick update...took a hpt today and finally got a NEGATIVE result ...its taken 8 weeks from my d&c for my hcg levels to go bak to normal. all i have to wait on now is af coming :S think im gna use opk's next month to see if i am ovulating... hope everyones doing well x

 

[Pink Ribbons]

Hi everyone

I just read this thread from almost the beginning, and it has given me so much hope. I had an ectopic pregnancy (baby measuring 8 weeks in left fallopian tube - no heartbeat) and had to have surgery a little over 3 weeks ago to remove my tube and also a D&C to remove a 2nd "trick sac" that had formed in my uterus. It has been a real shock...you'll see from my signature that I am already blessed with 3 daughters...so this has really come from left field.

I am now playing the waiting game...either AF or O...and am hoping to get straight back on the bandwagon either way. After reading about those who have gotten pregnant straight away without AF arriving first, I am feeling more confident about going right ahead and trying!

A quick note to Little_1 - Congratulations on getting your BFN today. I know that sounds weird...but I can't believe the rollercoaster ride you've been on. Waiting 8 weeks...I don't know how you've done it. I tested earlier this week when I was 3 weeks post-surgery, and got a BFN....I was thinking it would still be positive, but thankfully it wasn't. I am now waiting or O or AF, whichever arrives first. I'd imagine that you are now in the same boat. Lots of baby dust to you in the coming weeks.

I hope that we all get our BFP's very soon!

 

[jcorinne]

Tanzibar so sorry for your loss This is such a hard time. And when you have been trying for so long it seems like an extra slap in the face. We had been trying for 19 months when I got my BFP only to have it taken away. You have found a really good thread here though. We will all support each other until we get those new BFP's

Little1 glad you finally got a negative...Hopefully that will be the only time I tell you that. Now it means you are ready to get started again. Hoping we all get those BFP's really soon. Babydust to us all!

 

[Little_1]

Tanzibar im very sorry for your loss, we are all hear 4 you. how has everyone been keeping??

Pink Ribbons and jcorinne thank you...it was so frustrating, my emotions ontop of what we have all went thru have been everywhere these last 8 weeks and it was so weird taking a hpt seeing it was positive and being sad..just felt so surreal...i thought i was going to be sad and upset wen i got my bfn but i think because it has taken so long all i felt was relief.. have already been getting af cramps so hopefully it wont take long to arrive, then assoon as it goes i no i can start again... i really hope we all get our bfps soon x

 

[freddie]

Yay Little_1 finally you can move onto the next bit, trying for a new bfp I know it's weird feeling good about getting a bfn but it just means this horrible bit is finally over!

 

[jcorinne]

Well the showed up last night. Was really hoping that I could conceive before she arrived again so that maybe it wouldn't hurt my heart so bad. And it was a little heartbreaking when she arrived. Oh well on to another month I guess...

 

[Tanzibar83]

Oh thats such a sad thing to read jcorinne, I want to say a lot of positive things about your AF arriving but right now I'm just so sorry you have to go through another bleed when you should be at a time when your baby should be brewing. xxxxxx

How is your AF, they say it can be worse\better than a previous AF, just wondered if thats the case with you?

 

[BeverleyLN]

Hi Girls... I got my BFN this morning and feel quite excited!
I have 25-26 day cycles so if i treated the start of MC as cycle day 1 AF would be due 31st of Dec or 1st of Jan, we're going on holiday for 2 weeks and will be returning on the 5th of Jan so if AF hasn't shown up by the 9th i will test!

 

[Little_1]

Well girls as you know i got the bfn on wednesday and my af came yesterday morning I would say my af is heavier than it used to be and im in alot of pain, waves of nausia and have no energy but im just happy that its here so as soon as it goes i can start again... so nows the confusin bit for me lol do i take yesterday as day 1? and count from there...i really actualy dont know what im doin lmao...

Hope everyones doin good, i have my fxd for everybody this month! x

 

[jcorinne]

Oh thats such a sad thing to read jcorinne, I want to say a lot of positive things about your AF arriving but right now I'm just so sorry you have to go through another bleed when you should be at a time when your baby should be brewing. xxxxxx

How is your AF, they say it can be worse\better than a previous AF, just wondered if thats the case with you?

AF is pretty much the same as always. Really didn't cramp much at all and normal flow. I am trying the soy isoflavones and black cohosh this month so we'll see if that helps Guess I am trying that since the doc wont give me clomid again until feb. Really thought that I had managed to O all by myself this time but apparently it wasn't a good one or something.

 

[Tanzibar83]

Little_1 - my doc told me to treat a day of flow (so any time before 1pm) as cd1, if that helps.

Jcorinne - so how long did you have between your loss and af, how many days was that?

 

[ljane74]

Hi all. I'm new to this board as I've been on the miscarriage support board. I had erpc on Tuesday 13th dec. had some bleeding and cramps on the day and day after but nothing at all since then. And me being me is getting rather impatient and I'm just finding I want to get pg as soon as possible. Reading bits where supposed to be more fertile after mc isn't helping as I keep thinking I should do it now... But my other half is being the sensible half of the 2 of us and saying we've got to wait at least a week after the erpc or until finished the antibiotics hospital gave me which was only a weeks worth anyway. Aaargh don't want to wait but hopefully the days will go quick...

 

[lyndsay49]

Hi, I started my MC 28th nov, the bleeding stopped about 2weeks ago. I originally was going to wait until my AF but I cant wait that long! I have been using OPK's but still not got a positive, it is driving me crazy I just want to be pregnant again.

 

[jcorinne]

Little_1 - my doc told me to treat a day of flow (so any time before 1pm) as cd1, if that helps.

Jcorinne - so how long did you have between your loss and af, how many days was that?

There was 35 days between the loss and AF. I was using OP though and didn't ovulate until dec. 3rd or 4th so that was 23 days or so between loss and ovulation.

 

[Grey Eyes]

Oh thats such a sad thing to read jcorinne, I want to say a lot of positive things about your AF arriving but right now I'm just so sorry you have to go through another bleed when you should be at a time when your baby should be brewing. xxxxxx

How is your AF, they say it can be worse\better than a previous AF, just wondered if thats the case with you?

AF is pretty much the same as always. Really didn't cramp much at all and normal flow. I am trying the soy isoflavones and black cohosh this month so we'll see if that helps Guess I am trying that since the doc wont give me clomid again until feb. Really thought that I had managed to O all by myself this time but apparently it wasn't a good one or something.

Hi, you are the first person I have heard of that is taking black cohosh! How did you hear of it? I was on the dep for two years then got off of it--two years later still no period! Then I started taking black cohosh and BAM got my period back and was pregnant the next month! I had a miscarriage November 18 of this year I am tempted to take it again... my AF started yesterday (Dec 17) so here we go! Looks like we are on a similar cycle baby dust to you!!!

 

[Grey Eyes]

Hey girls, just a quick update...took a hpt today and finally got a NEGATIVE result ...its taken 8 weeks from my d&c for my hcg levels to go bak to normal. all i have to wait on now is af coming :S think im gna use opk's next month to see if i am ovulating... hope everyones doing well x

Just wanted to give you a boost! I had a d and c also (November 18) and got my cycle back as though day one of m/c was day one of my period. I used opk's (first time ever) to see if I was ovulating and I was. You are a woman and have an amazing bounce-back body! Good luck to you and lots of baby dust!

 

[jcorinne]

Oh thats such a sad thing to read jcorinne, I want to say a lot of positive things about your AF arriving but right now I'm just so sorry you have to go through another bleed when you should be at a time when your baby should be brewing. xxxxxx

How is your AF, they say it can be worse\better than a previous AF, just wondered if thats the case with you?

AF is pretty much the same as always. Really didn't cramp much at all and normal flow. I am trying the soy isoflavones and black cohosh this month so we'll see if that helps Guess I am trying that since the doc wont give me clomid again until feb. Really thought that I had managed to O all by myself this time but apparently it wasn't a good one or something.

Hi, you are the first person I have heard of that is taking black cohosh! How did you hear of it? I was on the dep for two years then got off of it--two years later still no period! Then I started taking black cohosh and BAM got my period back and was pregnant the next month! I had a miscarriage November 18 of this year I am tempted to take it again... my AF started yesterday (Dec 17) so here we go! Looks like we are on a similar cycle baby dust to you!!!

I have been ttc since March 2010. Found out in June 2011 when I was FINALLY referred to a fertility specialist that I was not ovulating at all. So he put me on clomid which I took for 4 cycles before my bfp. I miscarried on Nov 10th at 6 weeks. The dr. doesn't want to try again until Feb. I can't wait that long. So I went online and started doing research on natural ways to ovulate. Found several articles about soy isoflavones and black cohosh. Most of what I read said that the American Indians used black cohosh to help women with fertility issues. So I thought hey I might as well give it a try Went to the local health store and found a supplement that actually has both in it. We'll see what happens.

 

[Grey Eyes]

Hi, I started my MC 28th nov, the bleeding stopped about 2weeks ago. I originally was going to wait until my AF but I cant wait that long! I have been using OPK's but still not got a positive, it is driving me crazy I just want to be pregnant again.

Hi, I understand how you feel- I m/c'd Nov 18 and started OPK testing about a week later- as soon as bleeding stopped. i ovulated as though my m/c was cd1...Doc told me to TTC asap so that's what I am doing. Just want you to know you are not alone! I want to be pregnant gaain too- and fast!

 

[Buzzymomma]

Hello everyone... Can I join your thread? I've read all the pages and you all seem like a very supportive bunch... I'd love to be a part xx

I've just miscarried over the weekend... I was 6 weeks, 2 days. My husband is just destroyed. We've decided to try again asap. He's very on board, and I'm going to try the exact regimen I was using in November when we conceived.
I'm also doing a lot of research about herbs that I could take during early pregnancy to prevent miscarriage... I've found a couple that are good for threatened miscarriage, but none that I'd be able to take the whole time. Gonna do a lot of that in the next 14-16 days until ovulation (hopefully)!